I am back from my trip. It was good. But now things have suddenly grown hectic and urgent. I no longer have time to read e-mail or watch this group. Maybe next...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Jan 10, 2013 3:08 pm
Glad to know everything went well Chris, and hope you have a good time with your family. Congrats Jeff on being the new moderator. I never heard from...
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Rhyader
rhyader3
Jan 11, 2013 12:12 pm
In short... Yes, I look at porn a lot. Usually. My friend Bob calls me a port addict. I do not believe this is true because Bob has been through 12-step...
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Jeff Gootee
allenarcane88
Jan 11, 2013 11:21 pm
You know for a post that says in short that was rather long winded lol jk. Â I watch porn a few times a week. Sometimes it's just for the entertainment value,...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Jan 12, 2013 3:25 am
I found both of your insights into pornography insightful. My turn. :-) To start, I AM addicted to porn. I know this, and have accepted it as a fact. However,...
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Rhyader
rhyader3
Jan 14, 2013 6:18 am
Actually it was short... I just typed it out rather quickly. It seemed to flow easily. This time it's harder and I am not as... inspired? At any rate, sorry to...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Jan 15, 2013 12:10 am
I think, Chris, that I am the same as you. I am also a sufferer of, as my former counselor liked to call it, "Arrested psychosexual development."Â After...
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Rhyader
rhyader3
Jan 17, 2013 5:24 am
I suppose I would agree with that, "other Chris". I think the root of my problem is that I just never had the chance for a "normal" psychosexual development....
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Jeff Gootee
allenarcane88
Jan 17, 2013 7:06 am
 Your statement Chris#2 about being introduced to sex at a young age actually got me to thinking back over my child hood and I realized that I was introduced ...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Jan 17, 2013 3:14 pm
With the risk of sounding all psycho-babbly, I wanted to say a couple things that I have discussed, at length with former counselors of mineand this is what I...
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Jeff Gootee
allenarcane88
Jan 25, 2013 2:42 am
 I'm actually a fan psycho babble lol and I admit that I enjoy hearing from someone who is more knowledgeable than I. I also enjoy cooking, though not...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Jan 26, 2013 11:28 pm
Don't stress over not being able to remember anything before 10. That's normal. Being able to remember before that age is rare. The part of our brain that...
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Rhyader
rhyader3
Jan 28, 2013 9:06 am
to Chris(2)'s post... I very much disagree with your first paragraph in the psycho-babble. You now know 2 gay men, counting me, who were never introduced to...
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Rhyader
rhyader3
Jan 28, 2013 9:31 am
I enjoy cooking too, actually. And I remember a few things that happened before I was 10. I remember the 2 days that every channel on TV had the same picture: ...
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allenarcane88
Feb 6, 2013 1:52 am
I thought these articles might be pertinent to the original topic, at least in peripheral sense lol. These are two articles about the death, in one case...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Feb 15, 2013 3:33 pm
Hey all. Sorry for not writing for a while. I got a new job which is 10x better than my old one. So I've been a bit busy. Just wanted to let you guys know I'm...
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allenarcane88
Mar 19, 2013 5:50 am
Hey all. I'm looking for some advice on something that I didn't think i would have to deal with for quite awhile. My cousin has three kids, 2 girls and a boy....
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Barry
barrych209
Mar 19, 2013 11:01 am
Jeff, I've done this talk several times. Just mention that you know his body is changing... voice deepening perhaps, hair under the arms, chest, groin, he...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Mar 19, 2013 10:41 pm
Hi Jeff. I am not at all older, and probably not wiser either, but wanted to say this: I too, have never gotten the birds and the bees discussion when I was...
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sidjoens
Mar 27, 2013 1:13 am
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Mar 27, 2013 8:56 am
Hey Sid, my name is Chris. Welcome to the group! We are trying to re-vitalize it, so to speak. If you have any good discussion topics you would like to talk...
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allenarcane88
Mar 30, 2013 11:34 pm
I want to say Hi to both of our newest members and apologize for taking so long to do so. I look forward to talking to both of you and I hope that you'll be...
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allenarcane88
Mar 30, 2013 11:44 pm
Hey Chris and Barry. i want to thank you for your advice. You differing viewpoints have been a big help. I have yet to talk to him but I've been asked to do so...
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Barry
barrych209
Mar 30, 2013 11:52 pm
Jeff, I wouldn't come out to him just yet. Talking about body changes, masturbation, sex, feelings, etc. can be embarrassing enough for the boy. Besides, "the...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Mar 31, 2013 3:17 pm
Jeff, I agree with Barry on this one. Focus on his body/feelings. If it comes up in conversation, then you could mention it, but only in that instance. For...
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allenarcane88
Apr 24, 2013 4:55 am
Hello yall, I admit that I have not been living up to my responsibilities as a Moderator. I will try to do better. I came across this article and it is...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Apr 25, 2013 10:49 pm
Hey guys. I just read this article this morning before I left for work. I think it's fantastic that the NFL, the ONLY sports organization without an openly gay...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
Apr 30, 2013 10:45 pm
Hey guys. Just in case you missed the news today, Jason Collins of the Washington Wizards (NBA), came out today. I think this is phenomenal! The President,...
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allenarcane88
May 8, 2013 11:04 pm
Sorry its taken me so long to get involved, my computer has been in for some hardware work. I've been following this story pretty closely through Edge (anyone...
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Chris Johnsen
cookingwithluv
May 9, 2013 2:55 am
An add on to this story: Charles Barclay, arguably one of the best basketball players in our time, just came out in support of Collins. He said, when asked if...
