I don't like battle. I like the clear-blue skies unencumbered by the dark and emerging clouds that creep from the horizon and blunt the sun. I don't want to...
I tried to email a moderator. Two have "bouncing"; underneath their email addresses in the list of moderators. Another moderator's Yahoo! ID is "Not...
No one is born homosexual or lesbian. There is no such thing as a Gay Christian. It IS possible to overcome the bondage of hommosexuality, and have the...
Good Guys, Even after we survive our childhood, I think there are times when we just give in and see ourselves as others sometimes see us, as less than them,...
Good Guys, As I have said before, when I was doing wrong, I never perceived it as right, or even that I had a right to do it. I did it not because I had to or...
Good Guys, Even in our own brokenness, even when we want to take full responsibility; sometimes we're clearly disappointed with God. Like David in Psalms, we...
Good Guys, This week's blog post is not as political as the headline makes it sound. However, the fact that President Obama has endorsed same-sex marriage does...
Good Guys, This week I'm taking a little temporary different direction on the blog. One of my best friends lost his daughter this week, only three days after...
When my children were little, they would hide in plain sight, or, at the least, in plain sound. Once, one of them covered his eyes and pronounced that since...
I have been working on developing a close friendship with a man at work and am experiencing some difficulties that I hope someone can give advice about. I...
The accept-me-as-I-am group (most struggling with self-acceptance) runs headlong into the I-can't-accept-you-until-you-change group, and under the watchful eye...
Good Guys, When it comes to the hope of overcoming any form of sexual brokenness, the question of how much change can be expected always comes up. Remaining...
Good Guys, I thought Christians would be better at ministering to the sexually-broken by now. I thought those of us who claim a desire to be Christlike would...
Good Guys, What do the same-sex attracted people in your church look like? Could they sit there looking like you, dressed like you, acting like you, ...
Good Guys, If evolution were reality, we'd have side airbags on our bodies that would inflate every time we approached a door through which we should not go....
Good Guys, I know some of you don't like to click on links, so I'm going to try and post the whole blog post here this week. Hopefully then, you will click...
Good Guys, Who are you? Or perhaps, who were you when you knew who you were? Back before you knew too much and heard too much and did too much and became all...
Good Guys, Like stepping into an attic too long neglected, we can find that the clutter has taken control and there is scarcely room to stand while sifting...
Good Guys, I really do hope you will take a moment to look at this week's post on spiritual abuse. The entire post can be viewed at this link: Spiritual...
Fact of the matter is, God does wag a "No . . . No. . . No . . . " finger in our faces. We just ignore it and say we didn't hear Him. Are we actually...
[Who Told You You Were Naked?: The Counterfeit Compassion of Culture] Good Guys, I've always been thankful to be a part of this group and have enjoyed not only...
Good Guys, I had five children. They wanted to know why. Why can't we go there? Why do we have to go here? Why can't I have this? Why do I have to have...
Good Guys, I doubt if there is anyone who does not on occasion doubt. At least himself. I know the illustration: we don't think about whether a chair is...
Good Guys, Christians do few things worse than share the love of Christ and the reality of healing and forgiveness with the sexually-disses among us. That...
Good Guys, It really is not the closing of a year that makes the difference, no matter what we say or wish. Turning a page on a calendar has about as much...
Good Guys, Why does evil so often win the want-to war? When I look back on the many opportunities I've had to "do the good I want to do," and done it not, but...
Good Guys, I wonder what life would be like if we never grew tired, never stopped so weary we can scarcely catch our breath? What if we walked without ...
Good Guys, Nothing hurts like hurting about hurts that make you hurt others. What a compound of pain that leads us to do unto others because something was done...
