I have been working on developing a close friendship with a man at work and am experiencing some difficulties that I hope someone can give advice about. I...
I think you should assume that he's looking for a sexual encounter, and proceed accordingly. IMHO, he IS trying to have a physical encounter. Since you...
I just had dinner with a same-sex friend hosting two hetero friends. And we did not try to have a good evening amongst friends. We just ate and talked and...
I believe it's wise to trust the Scriptures, in which Father tells us: Eph 6:12  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities,...
Thanks guys for the responses. I am excited to think that perhaps God has much bigger plans for this friendship than I thought. I do want to be careful not to...
When my children were little, they would hide in plain sight, or, at the least, in plain sound. Once, one of them covered his eyes and pronounced that since...
Good Guys, This week I'm taking a little temporary different direction on the blog. One of my best friends lost his daughter this week, only three days after...
Good Guys, This week's blog post is not as political as the headline makes it sound. However, the fact that President Obama has endorsed same-sex marriage does...
Good Guys, Even in our own brokenness, even when we want to take full responsibility; sometimes we're clearly disappointed with God. Like David in Psalms, we...
Good Guys, As I have said before, when I was doing wrong, I never perceived it as right, or even that I had a right to do it. I did it not because I had to or...
Good Guys, Even after we survive our childhood, I think there are times when we just give in and see ourselves as others sometimes see us, as less than them,...
I tried to email a moderator. Two have "bouncing"; underneath their email addresses in the list of moderators. Another moderator's Yahoo! ID is "Not...
No one is born homosexual or lesbian. There is no such thing as a Gay Christian. It IS possible to overcome the bondage of hommosexuality, and have the...
Brother, you are absolutely right! Religious Masturbators is no place for anyone who wants to resist gay temptations. Â Thanks for your wise and true words...
I don't like battle. I like the clear-blue skies unencumbered by the dark and emerging clouds that creep from the horizon and blunt the sun. I don't want to...
Good Guys, In light of – or in the darkness of – Jerry Sandusky's conviction for sexually-abusing boys who trusted him and were deceived and devalued, I...
Sadness and joy often run parallel in the lives of Christians who struggle with an addiction, no matter what it is. Victories and defeats can be close...
Good Guys, So now we want to dissect change, with some saying a fall in the process is evidence of the failure to change, or that continuing temptation is a ...
Good Guys, As we all know, many men and women struggle with secret addiction. If you're among them, I hope you will hear the still-small-voice of God long...
Good Guys, Many of you have followed my posts from Signs of a Struggle <http://www.signsofastruggleblog.com/> over the past several years as we've walked...
Good Guys, It's Thursday and a lot of people are hungry again. In their hearts. I hope you'll read my take on the Chick-Fil-A controversy and how it impacts...
Good Guys, Most of the things to which we are tempted are not good and not good for us. And I'm not talking about donuts, as if the solution is as simple as...
[undefined] Good Guys, We don't always know when we pick up the burdens we may carry throughout our lives. If we saw them on the side of a road somewhere, we ...
Good Guys, Giving a pass to anyone who sins sexually is nothing more than cultural bias. Sexual sin is sexual sin. I personally think Jesus would have spent...
Good Guys, Words are too often the weapon of choice. Words said to you. Words said about you. Words said by you. Words said by you to you. I hope you'll read...
[undefined] Good Guys, Mercy often appears like a clearing in the woods at just the point where it seems that one more thorny vine or scratching tangled brush,...
[undefined] Good Guys, I'm at another one of those pesky forks in the road. The car is in drive and I'm looking in all directions . . . waiting for a sign from...
Good Guys, But what of the man or woman who is a Christian and yet struggles with the multi-layered, multi-faceted sin of sexual brokenness -- homosexuality,...
