--- In WICS@yahoogroups.com, "wicsmichele"
<wicsmichele@y...> wrote:
>
> Ya know...
>
> personally, I consider anyone not married, to be single.
>
> And as singles, we all need friends, brothers, sisters, and
> fellowship. So, until someone belongs to a newly married
group, they
> still belong to the singles group.
>
> That's my take on it. : )
>
> Michele
Ya know, I don't have a problem with anyone who feels like they
want to join joining this group. I just have what I'll designate as
curiousity as to the statement of "i have found the perfect woman
for me, so i am no longer single, and i praise the lord for
delivering me my hopefully potential soulmate 4 life." being
posted on the Yahoo profile, and getting from that to the point
where you'd join a Christian Singles Group.

I guess I always try and put myself in the other person's shoes,
and as I do I also try and follow their thought processes, based
upon the information available. Trying to get to know someone,
perhaps, or trying to figure out how they think. Whenever I can't
figure it out, I find it's easy to just ask.