Hello, my name is LaMar.

I'm a 29 year old black male emailing from the SanBernardino area of southern
California.
Three important things I can say about myself are:
1. I'm a Christian.
I'm not a stuffed shirt, I definitely do know how to have fun, but my faith in
Jesus Christ is most important to me. I'm not saying I'm perfect, but Jesus
definitely told us to be, (mt. 5:48) and that's what I'm striving for.
2. I'm a single-parent father.
I have three wonderful children. I have a 7 year old, a 6 year old, and a 4
year old. They are my life! I often tell them that they are my "three smart
sweethearts".
3. I'm totally blind.
I've been totally blind since the age of five, but I lead a very independent
life. My 7 year old son is also a big help to his father as well.

My interests are playing around on the computer and on the internet, and working
with music production. I play the keyboard for our church. I learn by ear, so
I wouldn't say I was all that great, but I am ok I guess; at least good enough
to play at church anyway.
I also am very much in to startrek; especially the next generation, voyager, and
deepspace 9.
Cooking is also a wonderful passtime of mine; which I suppose is very important
being my children do need to eat!

What am I looking for?
I would like to meet a woman who is also Christian, a single-parent, or at least
love children, and a lot of fun to speak with. You don't have to be blind, or a
single-parent, but please be mature enough to respect some one who is both.
I'm looking to also eventually become involved in a long term relationship. Of
course, friendship would be the best beginning.
I'm interested in meeting someone who loves to laugh, and who has a pleasant
sense of humor, who is not a stuffed shirt, as I'm not one, and who can enjoy
anything from a quiet night at home with a movie and foot massage, to a great
time at an amusement or water park.
Someone who's between the ages of about 21 or 22 to about 29 or 30.
I have no hangups about race.

To contact me:
You can contact me on msn/windows messenger at lupshaw@..., and you can
also email me at the same address; lupshaw@....
You can also message me on yahoo messenger at: ltu24, and you can email me at
ltu24@....
If you have a cel phone, or text messenging device, you can text me at:
1-909-556-2297
Yes, I actually do have a talking text messenging device.
I do have a picture available that I can send in email or via multimedia picture
messaging if anyone wanted to see it.
Please feel free to email me, or send an instant or text message at any time.
Ask anything you'd like to know about me, I'm not easily embarrassed. I welcome
messages.

I look forward to meeting interesting new people.

With respect,
Upshaw, LaMar T

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