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#1246 From: dcmdva_sgl_lgbti@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wed Jun 1, 2011 2:33 pm
Subject: File - Drumbeat & more
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DRUMBEAT: National Black SGL/LGBT Listserv
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nationalblacksgllgbt
This listserv includes African-American, Black, Caribbean, and African
SGL/LGBTI, in addition to our allies & other progressive activists, nationwide
as well as outside of the United States.

SGL/LGBTI Persons of African Descent [USA]
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A nation-wide group for same-gender oriented persons of color and other sexual &
gender minorities.
Same-gender-loving, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Homosexual, Transgender, Two-Spirit,
Intersex people of African descent in the United States

#1247 From: Audacity <audacity_always_wins@...>
Date: Mon Jun 6, 2011 3:00 pm
Subject: UNSUNG on TV ONE at 10pm; plus RuPaul album tracks (links)
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UNSUNG: Deniece Williams
10pm on TV One Monday June 6, 2011
 
TV One's UnSung is back with ALL NEW episodes with the artists you've been dying to see! 
TV One's signature music biography series sheds much-do light on some of the most influential, talented and yet, somehow forgotten R&B, Soul and Gospel artists of the last 30 years. While Aretha, Whitney, Diana, Stevie, Marvin and the Winans have been recognized over and over again-there are several artists like Phyllis Hyman and The Clark Sisters who haven't been as honored.
This season, we'll dig deep into the lives of Deniece Williams, Big Daddy Kane, The Spinners, The Ohio Players, Alexander O'Neal & Cherrelle and Evelyn "Champagne" King. Airing Monday nights, Unsung uncovers the hidden truth behind the fading of your favorite stars.
This new and exciting season will reveal the business and personal struggles that kept these artists from achieving the iconic commercial status they deserved.  Don't miss Unsung when it returns!
 
 
Glamazon [2011] by RuPaul
CD and MP3 available on Amazon.com (samples available)
On youtube.com - Full length tracks
More info: www.rupaul.com
01. The Beginning
02. Click Clack (Make Dat Money)
03. Glamazon
04. I Bring the Heat
05. Superstar
06. Responsitrannity
07. Live Forever
08. Get Your Rebel On
09. (Here It Comes) Around Again
10. If I Dream
 
Enjoy

#1248 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Thu Jun 2, 2011 12:58 am
Subject: BMX-NY (06|03|2011): TAKING RESPONSIBILITY For The 'L' in SGL: The Politics of Love
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The  BMX-NY  Gatekeepers  e-Newsletter
JUNE  3rd, 2011
Black Men's Xchange-National

 
In This Week's Gatekeepers Issue
This Friday's Topic:
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY for the 'L' in SGL: The Politics of Love
Friday Forum Recap (05|13|11): Does Your God Mind How You Love?
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Welcome To The Black Men's Xchange-New York (BMX-NY) Gatekeepers e-Newsletter. This e-newsletter is for the gathering on Friday, June 3rd, 2011.

 
 



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Topic  For  This  Friday,  June  3rd,  2011       
  
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY For The 'L' in SGL:
The Politics of Love   
 
Facilitated by Chad Franklin & L. Jett Wilson    
 
Yolo (capture)   

LOVE Wallpaper 
What is love?  
 
 
The Personal Is Political
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What is meant by the statement, 'The personal is political'?
 
 
 
Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome 

If Black people have to unlearn self-hatred resulting from Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome on the way to becoming self-actualized, what must SGL men do?
 
 
SGL Couple 13 (Sistahs Married) 
 
 
There is a movement for marriage equality, politicizing homosexuals' right to love each other and have that love sanctioned socially, economically and otherwise. What are we doing about our love?
 
 
How can you tell if you are really loving yourself?
 

Brutha In The Mirror
 
 
What are the benefits of loving myself?


If I must embody love in order to attract the love I seek, how do I learn to do that?     
       
Bruthaz Holding Hands On The Shores of Ghana
  
      
 
 
 
 
Friday  Forum  Recap
(Topic  Hi-lites  From  Friday,  May  13th,  2011) 
  
   
Facilitated  by   L.  Jett  Wilson  &  John  Singletary 
 
Black Jesus - Black Love
 
During Friday's Black Men's Xchange-New York dialogue, Brothers considered their relationship to spirit in the face of their sexuality from the following perspectives:
 
 
Black Jesus with Lox 
 
 
No Homo Sex 
 
 
Is homo sex wrong?
 
"No...Cause it feels right...It took a while [for me to arrive at that, but]..."
 
"It never felt wrong for me...It's always just felt right..."

"I'm not okay with it because I grew up in a homophobic home..."

"The act of homo sex isn't wrong...If anybody attacks me for it...I attack back...It's none of your business..."

 "I was thinking back and wondering why did I feel ashamed [about my sex]...Bathhouses...I wonder if it was the circumstances [under which I had sex]...or, because I thought the sex [itself] was wrong...Falling in love was what brought me out of feeling a shamed...When it was done in the right circumstance..."

"It's tough to be able to stand as a same gender loving man...and be able to defend yourself..."

"I think sometimes there is a callous or scar tissue that forms around [something that is stigmatized]...Even the concept that my sex life is private is a reflection of a belief that it's wrong...Heterosexuals have no problem admitting their sex...If it's private...[it's hidden, and that implies that it's wrong]..."

{Facilitator says, "I was thinking back to when our sexuality started forming...Was there a moment when you realized [or first believed] it was wrong?..."}

"My mother took me to a therapist...The conversations [I had with the therapist] were great...He told her, you don't have to bring him here any more...[My mother] didn't like that...Then she took me to a pastor..."

"I knew from the time I was a toddler that I was attracted to males...I was prematurely sexualized by an older cousin one weekend when I was four...The cousin, who I would later learn was fourteen or fifteen that weekend he spent with us...taught me to felate him over the course of the weekend...While I didn't experience it as traumatic at the time...I just remember being thrilled that I had this beautiful creature's complete and undivided attention...The event did trip a switch that I would not be able to turn off for a very long time thereafter...And, one night when I was five...It was bedtime and I was sitting on the bed with my father...My brothers were in the kitchen with our mother...I was looking at my father's penis through his pajamas...And, with my heart racing, I reached over and clutched his penis, asking, 'Daddy, what's that?'...He recoiled, barking...'That's my penis! And, you must never touch another person's penis!'...And, while I didn't really understand what sex was yet...That was the moment I first realized homo sex was wrong..."

{Facilitator asks, "Has anyone ever prayed to have homosexuality taken away?"...  [Many participants raise their hands]..."Questioned whether or not they were cursed?"... [Many raise their hands]..."Been ridiculed by family"...[More hands]..."Out in the street? [More hands]..."What does that do to us?"}

"It depends on how secure you are in yourself...By now, I'm quite secure...As a child, any time I met a boy I was attracted to, I took him home and introduced him to my mother...As I got older, I would learn that it wasn't accepted...[but, I learned better]..."
 
 
 
SGL Couple 23 (Holdin' My Man Tight)
 
 
 
Is there a connection between spirituality and sex?

"Yes...spirituality is an expression of how you feel connectivity to another person...and also for procreation...Usually someone's sexual habits or sexual life...Persons who are connected to the realm of spirituality tend to have a healthier sex life and less sex...People who are connected to the negative realm of sexuality have more sex and more destructive sex..."

"For me, sex is a spiritual act...a spiritual expression...I used to keep spirituality over here, and sex over here...Once I brought them together, sex was better...It involves how I treat my partner and how I expect my partner to treat me...[We] have conversations about what we will do...how fast or slow...You need to make love to me spiritually...and to my mind, before you can make love to my body..."

{Facilitator says, "That's not the same as being religious[ly] observant...[where there is moralizing about what people do with each other]..."}

"[Spirituality] is not a concrete thing...[It's] another view of yourself]"

"For me, spirituality is essence...There is a Principle or Force by which the universe functions...that flows through all things...That is the essence of all things...Some call it God...or, Yaweh...or, Jehovah...or, Buddah...or, Oludumare...But all relate to the essence...And for human kind, it is the essence of my self...My divinity...Some call it Creator...That part of me that reflects my own capacity to be creative and to create...and I am creative sexually..."
{Facilitator says, "Spirituality is a relationship with that thing...[that] force..."}

"When we talk about spirituality as a connective thing...I'm hearing a lot of ego in people's descriptions...If everybody's so connected, why aren't we all getting married and celebrating our sexuality [wherever we go]...John-Martin talks about how many of us [SGL Black men] are still playing darting eye games with each other out in public...If we're so connected to spirituality...why aren't we all happy, and all getting married?..."

"If you don't have a basis for the first question [Is homo sex wrong?] you're not going to be able to answer the second question [Is there a connection between spirituality and sex?]...For me, yes, it's wrong...We rationalize it...Is sex wrong?...No...It's a form of communication...Is homo sex wrong?...Yes...I don't know why I participate in it...We confuse our happiness sometimes with joy...There's still a void for me sometimes at the end of the day...Yeah, I do...I think it's wrong...I think that, that's why we are here...For me, I think we justify it...And spirituality..."

{Facilitator asks, "What is the void?...Can you describe it?..."}

"[The] void is a lot of difficult things...I grew up with just my mom...So, there's no father figure...And, the males that were around took advantage of that..."

{Facilitator asks, "Was there loneliness in that?"}

"Yeah...If I wasn't lonely, I wouldn't be here [right now]...That conviction [that it's wrong] for me, it's God...He tells me...I let you go out here and do what you want to do, and you still feel [empty]..."
 
   
The Spirit of Intimacy - Ancient African Teachings{Facilitator asks, "Do you love yourself?} "Yeah..." {Facilitator asks, "How do you know that you love yourself?"} "Cause I'm still here..." {Facilitator says, "May I offer that the void that you're feeling is a lack of love, and a lack of self-love...As Black men, from the Middle Passage, through enslavement...through  sharecropping, the public school to prison pipeline...we are taught that we are [unlovable]"...[He reads a passage from Sonbufo Some's "The Spirit of Intimacy"..."'In the village homosexuality is seen differently...because all sexuality is spiritually based'..."For me, God is Love...That void is the absence of love...To be alone is painful...A loveless place..."} 

"I was kind of saddened by what you shared, But I can relate to it...I have nineteen journals dating back to when I was in grad school in the nineties...Therapy...I don't believe that [homo sex] is wrong consciously...But then, my boy friend tried to kiss me in public in the store around the corner yesterday, and I was [a little put off by it] like...'Come on Baby'...When did I stop thinking it?...It took a lot of work...When I think of salvation [it's] the complete and total acceptance of myself..."

"I hated myself... I felt a void...My parents told me, 'You're going to hell'...I started drinking...and doing drugs...Last year, I tried to kill myself...I wound up going to a therapist...The therapist said, 'Say it out loud'...[I told her,] 'Miss, I can't say that'...[She said,] 'It's who you are, and until you do, you won't start to heal'...And I finally said, 'I'm a Black, gay man'...My prayer every day was for God to take this cup from me...I'm twenty-eight-years-old...I pray every night...I get everything else I want...Why not this?...Something's wrong here..."

"When I was a boy...After I learned that homosexuality was wrong...or, learned the commonly held belief that homosexuality is wrong...I hated myself because I bought into the lie of my inferiority...I believed the myth that my homosexuality made me an abomination before God...And I was angry at God...I cursed God...I raged at god...Because I believed God had cursed me...And, I raged at Him, telling Him He was going to show me wherefore He had cursed me...And, it took me many years of different processes of self-reflection, including over a decade of therapy with different therapists to unlearn the lie that my homosexuality made me wrong...and that, it was the people who would make me wrong who were wrong...But, before I unlearned the lie, I engaged in all kinds of sex that was unaffirming...As a pubescent boy I began frequenting public restrooms...I now realize, I believed that, if my sex is shit, where better to have it, than in a shit house?...By now, I love myself and respect myself and it is that love and respect of myself that enables me to go out into the community that I love and attempt to assist them in unlearning the lie of our inferiority..."

"I do believe there are different levels of loving yourself...I know I matter...My choices matter...I don't give a shit about what anybody else thinks...For me, I didn't come here for a forum [to tell me] this is how Black people deal with it...I work for the government...When I go out [I see all kinds of people]...White people go through this [too]...questioning their sexuality...I keep doing it, and I don't know why, but I don't think it's a lack of love...God loves me right now more than I do...I want to get to the point where I love me as much as God does...I feel like every time I do this [have homo sex] I drive another wedge between me and God...I've been through a lot of different foster homes...I think of one of my foster mothers as my mother...I asked my mother...'Is it wrong?'...I asked why He won't take it from me...After I have sex, I try to wash the skin off me..."

"You are a by-product of a system you live in...You work for the government?...[You do indeed]...They will arrest a five-year-old Black child and put him in handcuffs to shame him [into believing he's a criminal]...There's a lot of rich White people who start wars and then we have to go and fight them...One thing that helped me was identifying myself...When I dropped Nigga and faggot, I began to know who I really am...Our families need us...Black people are the first people on the planet, which means that Black homosexuals were the first homosexuals on the planet..."

{Facilitator asks, "How many of you...if you care to share it...have ever contemplated suicide?..."} [Around half the room raise their hands.]

"That was my contemplation just two days ago...I don't think it's about healing...It's about learning...I don't think I'm more broken than anybody else...I don't even know if my sexuality is why I contemplated it...I don't feel like identifying that as an open wound for me..."

"You can't fix [our Brother]...You can empathize with him...but you can't fix him...You can say, 'I hear where you're at'...But, whether or not he lives or dies is up to him...The intention is to help...But, the masculinized energy is to fix...My experience of the universe has to be [mine]...I've had sex with hundreds of men, women and a few who are making some decisions in-between...and it was all beautiful, because nobody was being degraded...I do not know the mind of God...I do know that I am an aspect of God...In truth, you are the truth that you seek...Your mission was to come here to be phucked up [so you could work it out and find the truth]..."

"I was like him twelve years ago...I was a closed container...Nobody could tell me nothin...I didn't care how many degrees you had or nothin...[It wasn't] Until I was on my deathbed ready to die that I said...Somebody help me..."

"Like Brother was saying...You can't hear something until you do...The thing is, you do get to hear when you get to hear...Everyone is not going to hear tonight...But don't stop saying [what is real for you]...I didn't see anybody disrespecting this Brother...This is BMX...If you don't expect to hear something about Blackness, and [what is distinct about] our experience...[Then] there's some delusion going on...Just like pro-Black doesn't mean anti-White...We're conditioned to believe that if we focus on what's unique to us, [there's some sort of betrayal being perpetrated]...When we say that we have different experiences than White people have, that's truth...and, if you don't get to that, there's a delusion [going on]...When we speak of homosexuality as wrong...The [question] is...Where did you get that information from?...Where are the facts?...Where did the messages come from?...What's trying to be done to us?...And, who's doing it?..."
{Facilitator says, "Sometimes good work does not feel good, and sometimes, what feels good is not good work...Let's focus on the healing...We can uncover the wound ad infinitum...But, let's focus on the healing..."}  
 
{Facilitator says, "Sometimes good work does not feel good, and sometimes, what feels good is not good work...Let's focus on the healing...We can uncover the wound ad infinitum...But, let's focus on the healing..."}
 
 
 
   
 

 

Upcoming  Topics:  BMX-NY  2011  Spring  Calendar          

(PLEASE NOTE THAT TOPICS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE;
WEEKLY E-NEWSLETTERS WILL REFLECT ANY NEW CHANGES)

           
      
Friday, June 10th, 2011
TO BE ANNOUNCED 
 
 
Friday, June 17th, 2011
Thriving or Surviving, Which Are You?: The Resource Quotient
(Facilitated by Kyle Doyle)
 
 
Friday, June 24th, 2011
How Do We Flex Our Political Muscles As SGL Men?
(Facilitated by Anthony Truly & Tommie Thompson)
 
 
Saturday, June 25th, 2011
2nd Annual Harlem Pride Event
(Currently Scheduled For Marcus Garvey Park > 12 NOON - 6PM)
 
Harlem Pride Logo 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
BMX  National  News
A  BMX  National  Leadership  Summit  &  Retreat  Reflection 
                

"Healing, Strategic Intelligence, Self-Love & Discovery"
(Friday, May 6th - Monday, May 9th, 2011)
 
West Sonoma Inn & Spa Entrance Sign

Tall Tree with Map


Some comments made by the brotherhood during the retreat: 
 
"We worked together as a collective team"
 
"The information was excellent"

 
 BMX National Retreat (2011) - Cleo Talking
 AmASSI and BMX Founder Cleo Manago
Addressing The Brotherhood During The 4-Day Retreat
 
 
   
"We need more time at the retreat"
 
"It was a bonding experience"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Sofa Bruthaz 
 

"It was a brotherhood, can't wait to see each other again"
 
"The place was nice, the information was great"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Two Bruthaz Talking 
 
 
"The neutrality stood out"

"I  found my voice"
 
 
 BMX National Retreat (2011) - Young Bruthaz In Van 1
 

"There was great energy, people"

"It was motivational"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Bruthaz Listening On
 
 

"Brings together like minded people"

"It was incredible the size of the participants (40) and the hugeness of the retreat"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Camera & Lights Set-up
 

"I really loved the relationship panel.  More people should know that we have sustaining relationships"

"It was beyond my imagination"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Young Bruthaz In Van 2
 

"I saw my best self represented"

"Having attended other MSM leadership retreats which were catty, no support, competition, and violence, this one had support, self love, and teaching."
   
 
 
 
 
 
Community  Corner  Announcements 
 

25th  Annual  ADODI  Summer  Retreat
Wednesday  July  20th  -  Sunday,  July  24th,  2011
White Eagle Conference Center
Hamilton, New York 

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Official ADODI Website:  ADODIonline.com



Greetings from The Brotherhood of ADODI
 
We invite all same-gender loving men of African heritage to join us in the gathering for our 25th annual summer retreat:
 
The ADODI Promise:
Claiming the Legacy, Living The Legend
 
If, as Joseph Beam postulated in 1986, "Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act..:" then the ADODI Brotherhood is surely revolutionary. It lies with each of us to ensure that this life affirming movement does not become simply an historical moment.
 
We gather together in July 2011 to conjure the legendary qualities of the ADODI Brotherhood. We journey forth to hold one another and affirm the fearless vision and life-saving, life-giving mission of black men loving black men. We congregate to appreciate the lives - both past and present - that define our tribe of caring, compassionate community among same-gender-loving (SGL) men of African descent. This summer we join together and share our commitment, knowledge, skill, passion and evolving aspirations of freedom, so that our beloved tribe may thrive 25 years more!
 
For this special 25th summer gathering we invoke the idea of
"legends" to honor the values, traditions, ancestors and historical significance of the ADODI Brotherhood. We call forth the notion of "legacy" to center our spirits on the seemingly modest gifts turned into grand treasures - our inheritance of loving intent and beloved community called ADODI. As trustees and beneficiaries of this legacy, we have our own bequests to the future to consider. This year's Retreat is dedicated to celebrating that legacy, and envisioning the future. As we benefit from the fruits grown by those who have gone before us, so the future of the brotherhood rests on our shoulders.
    

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ADODI Summer Retreat (2011) Registration Form (PDF)

  
Registration for the 25th Annual ADODI Summer Retreat is now available online, too!!!
 
Visit www.ADODIonline.com and click on The Adodi Annual
Summer Retreat on the banner to be taken to the Retreat info.
page.
 
You will need to create a login to ADODInline.com to register for the Retreat. Above the Retreat information tabs is where you click to create your free account to access the ADODIonline community.
 
You may register online now and mail your payment(s) in later, or you can register and using a credit card via PayPal. (if you pay using a credit card, a $15.00 service fee is added onto your registration price).
  
Registration Fee Information 
After May 31, '11............................... $800.00
 
 
Round trip coach bus transportation will be provided from the  
Adam Clayton Powell Jr State Office Building 
163 West 125th Street
(between Lenox Avenue/Malcolm X Blvd and Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd)
Harlem, New York City 10027
 
 
 

 
  
New BlackFest, The (logo)Official Website: TheNewBlackfest.org
 
 
   
THE NEW BLACK FEST is A THEATER FESTIVAL.
 
THE NEW BLACK FEST  
with guest curators Judy Tate and Godfrey Simmons  
in association with  
651 ARTS
 
presents
 
 
THE AMERICAN SLAVERY PROJECT
 
In recognition of the Sesquicentennial of the Civil War (now through 2015), The New Black Fest with Guest Curators Judy Tate and Godfrey Simmons, launch the American Slavery Project Series, a monthly reading series that celebrates the work of African American playwrights who boldly and refreshingly explore slavery and/or the Civil War. The purpose behind the American Slavery Project is to initiate new conversations around theater's role in counteracting the increasing revisionism in our political/social discourse about the Civil War and slavery. More importantly, the American Slavery Project aims to promote a generation of African-American voices who are telling the diverse and rich stories from an era that most adversely affected us. The series runs from mid-March through Juneteenth.
 
Schedule of Events
 
Monday, March 7, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Fast Blood by Judy Tate
 
It's 1845.  Ham and Effie, an enslaved couple, stumble across the body of a hanging man who's miraculously still alive.  It is their connection to this mysterious and seductive stranger that tests their faith, love and ultimately, their own notions of slavery.
 
Location:  CAP 21 - 18 W. 18th Street, 6th Floor, NYC
 
Post Show Conversation:  The Human Face of Slavery
 
Kick-Off Wine and Cheese Reception will follow.
 
Co-presented by CAP 21
 
 
 
Monday, April 4, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Sweet Maladies by Zakiyyah Alexander
 
It's been two years since slavery was abolished and three recently freed slavegirls, stuck in 'the big house', play the only game they know: history.  But what happens when the game turns sticky sweet and deadly?
 
Location:  Mark Morris Dance Center - 3 Lafayette Avenue, Fort Greene, Brooklyn
 
Post Show Conversation:  Tiny Rebellions
 
 
 
Monday, May 2, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Living in the Wind by Michael Bradford
 
Georgia. 1876. Isaiah, a former plantation stud, steps into Sarah's front yard after a twelve-year absence. Married as slaves and separated by their owner on the night of their marriage, Sarah and Isaiah attempt to salvage a relationship.  However, difficulties arise as new lovers, past conquests, and the deadly reminder of slavery stand before them.
 
Location:  The Drilling Company - 236 W. 78th Street, NYC
 
Post Show Conversation:  Slavery's Impact on Male Sexual Identity
 
Co-presented by The Drilling Company
 
 
 
Monday, June 6, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Voices from Harpers Ferry by Dominic Taylor
 
In 1859, twenty-one men, including five free Black men, attacked the arsenal at Harpers Ferry along with the legendary John Brown.  This exciting new play probes into the lives of the five Black men who fought alongside Brown, and more importantly, Osborne P. Anderson, the only Black man who survived to tell the tale of Harpers Ferry.
 
Location:  Audubon Ballroom - 3940 Broadway, btw 165th & 166th Streets, NYC 
 
Post Show Conversation:  John Brown and Civil War Uprisings
 
Co-Presented by The Classical Theatre of Harlem
 
 
 
Wednesday, June 15, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Safe House by Keith Josef Adkins
 
1843.  Kentucky.  Addison Pedigrew is a free man of color who has big dreams of opening a shoe business.  His family also secretly helps fugitives flee to Liberia.  When a young woman knocks on his door seeking refuge, Addison's loyalty to race and family finally clashes with his unrelenting desire for success.
 
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Post Show Conversation:  Free People of Color and the Trek to Liberia
 
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Ethel Waters was an American blues, jazz and gospel vocalist and actress. She frequently performed jazz, big band, and pop music, on the Broadway stage and in concerts, although she began her career in the 1920s singing blues. Her best-known recordings includes, "Dinah", "Birmingham Bertha," "Stormy Weather," "Hottentot Potentate," and "Cabin In The Sky," as well as her version of the spiritual, "His Eye is on the Sparrow." Ms. Waters was the second African American to be nominated for an Academy Award.

After her start in Baltimore, Waters toured on the black vaudeville circuit. As she described it later, "I used to work from nine until unconscious."Despite her early success, she fell on hard times and joined a carnival, traveling in freight cars along the carnival circuit, eventually reaching Chicago. Waters enjoyed her time with the carnival and recalled, "the roustabouts and the concessionaires were the kind of people I'd grown up with, rough, tough, full of larceny towards strangers, but sentimental and loyal to their friends and co-workers." She did not last long with them, though, and soon headed south to Atlanta. There, she worked in the same club with Bessie Smith, who demanded that Waters not compete in singing blues opposite her. Waters conceded to the veteran blues headliner and instead sang ballads and popular songs, and danced. Perhaps today best known for her blues voice, Waters then was to sing, dance, play and star in musicals, plays and movies, and later in TV; but, she returned to singing blues whenever opportunity presented.

Ethel Waters 2Waters obtained her first Harlem job at Edmond's Cellar, a club that had a black patronage. She specialized in popular ballads and became an actress in a blackface comedy called Hello 1919. The jazz historian Rosetta Reitz points out that by the time Waters returned to Harlem in 1921, women blues singers were among the most powerful entertainers in the country. In 1921, Waters became the fifth Black woman to make a record, on the tiny Cardinal Records label. She later joined Black Swan Records, where Fletcher Henderson was her accompanist. Waters later commented that Henderson tended to perform in a more classical style than she would prefer, often lacking "the damn-it-to-hell bass." According to Waters, she influenced Henderson to practice in a "real jazz" style.

She recorded with Black Swan from 1921 through 1923. In early 1924, Paramount bought the Black Swan label, and she stayed with Paramount through 1924. Waters then first recorded for Columbia Records in 1925, achieving a hit with her voicing of "Dinah"-which was voted a Grammy Hall of Fame Award in 1998. Soon after, she started working with Pearl Wright, and together they toured in the South. In 1924, Waters played at the Plantation Club on Broadway. She also toured with the Black Swan Dance Masters. With Earl Dancer, she joined what was called the "white time" Keith Vaudeville Circuit, a traditional white-audience based vaudeville circuit combined with screenings of silent movies. They received rave reviews in Chicago and earned the unheard of salary of US$1,250 in 1928. In 1929, Harry Akst helped Wright and Waters compose a version of "Am I Blue?," her signature tune.

Although she was considered a blues singer during the pre-1925 period, Waters belonged to the Vaudeville-style style similar to Mamie Smith, Viola McCoy, and Lucille Hegamin. While with Columbia, she introduced many popular standards including "Dinah", "Heebie Jeebies", "Sweet Georgia Brown", "Someday, Sweetheart", "Am I Blue?" and "(What Did I Do To Be So) Black and Blue".

During the 1920s, Waters performed and was recorded with the ensembles of Will Marion Cook and Lovie Austin. As her career continued, she evolved toward being a blues and Broadway singer, performing with artists such as Duke Ellington.

She remained with Columbia through 1931. She then signed with Brunswick in 1932 and remained until 1933 when she went back to Columbia. She signed with Decca in late 1934 for only two sessions, as well as a single session in early 1938. She recorded for the specialty label "Liberty Music Shops" in 1935 and again in 1940. Between 1938 and 1939, she recorded for Bluebird.

In 1933, Waters made a satirical all-Black film entitled Rufus Jones for President, which featured then-child performer Sammy Davis Jr. as Rufus Jones. She went on to star at the Cotton Club, where, according to her autobiography, she "sang 'Stormy Weather' from the depths of the private hell in which I was being crushed and suffocated." She took a role in the Broadway musical revue As Thousands Cheer in 1933, where she was the first Black woman in an otherwise white show. She had three gigs at this point; in addition to the show, she starred in a national radio program and continued to work in nightclubs. She was the highest paid performer on Broadway at that time. MGM hired Lena Horne as the ingenue in the all-Black musical Cabin in the Sky, and Waters starred as Petunia in 1942, reprising her stage role of 1940. The film, directed by Vincente Minnelli, was a success, but Waters, offended by the adulation accorded Horne and feeling her age, went into something of a decline.

She began to work with Fletcher Henderson again in the late 1940s. She was nominated for a Best Supporting Actress Academy Award in 1949 for the film Pinky. In 1950, she won the New York Drama Critics Award for her performance opposite Julie Harris in the play The Member of the Wedding. Waters and Harris repeated their roles in the 1952 film version of Member of the Wedding'' In 1950, Waters starred in the television series Beulah but quit after complaining that the scripts' portrayal of African-Americans was "degrading." She later guest starred in 1957 and 1959 on NBC's The Ford Show, Starring Tennessee Ernie Ford. In the 1957 episode, she sang "Cabin in the Sky."

Rosetta Reitz called Waters "a natural". Her "songs are enriching, nourishing. You will want to play them over and over again, idling in their warmth and swing. Though many of them are more than 50 years old, the music and the feeling are still there."  
 
 
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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE (BMX) was founded in 1989 by activist, writer and behavioral health expert Cleo Manago, as an instrument of healing and empowerment for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual African descended men. The mission of the Black Men's Xchange (BMX) is to affirm, heal, educate, unify and promote well-being and critical thinking among Black people - 18 and up - diverse in sexuality, class, culture and philosophy.  Black Men's Xchange (BMX) conducts activities that promote healthy self-concept, sexual health, constructive decision making, and cultural affirmation among same-gender-loving (SGL), bisexual and heterosexual Black populations. BMX affirms and educates Black men (and the community at-large) while providing tools for self-determination, community responsibility, self-actualization and the prevention of health threats (e.g. HIV, isolation, substance and other addictions, and mental instability). BMX creates an environment that advances black culture and involves identifying and unlearning ingrained anti-homosexual and anti-black male and female conditioning,
 
BMX is built on a philosophy that embraces same gender loving experience as intrinsic to everyday Black life.  Integral to BMX's approach is the understanding that, in order to decrease internal and external anti-homosexual thinking, and demystify differences around diverse ways of living and loving Black people must engage in supportive dialogue with each other and the community.
 
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The Term Same Gender Loving

The term Same Gender Loving (SGL) emerged in the early '90s to offer Black women who love women and Black men who love men (and other people of color) a way of identifying that resonated with the uniqueness of Black life and culture.  Before this many African descended people, knowing little of our history regarding homosexuality and bi-sexuality, took on European symbols and identifications as a means of embracing our sexualities, including: Greek lambdas, German pink triangles, and the white-gay-originated rainbow flag, in addition to the terms gay, and lesbian.

The term gay, coined as an identification by White male homosexuals in the '50s, was cultivated in an exclusive White male environment.  By the '60s, the growing Gay Liberation movement developed in a climate largely excluding Blacks and women.  In response to this discrimination, White women coined the identification lesbian, a word derived from the Greek island, Lesbos. The Lesbian movement, in turn, helped define a majority White movement, called feminism.  In response to the racism experienced by women of color from White feminists, celebrated author, Alice Walker introduced the term womanist.

The term womanist identified women of color concerned with both the sexual and racial oppression of women.  In this spirit of self-naming and ethnic-sexual pride, the term same gender loving(SGL) was introduced to enhance the lives and amplify the voices of homosexual and bi-sexual people of color, to provide a powerful identification not marginalized by racism in the gay community or by "homophobic" attitudes in society at large.

As gay culture grew and established enclaves in San Francisco, Chelsea, Provincetown, Key West and other territories, Blacks especially, were carded and rejected from many establishments.  Even today Blacks, Latinos and Asians often appear in gay publications and other media solely as potential sexual objects.  Ironically, gay rights activism was modeled on the Civil Rights and Black Power Movements initiated by African Americans.

In the years since the advent of the Gay Rights movement many Black SGLs have found scant space for the voices, experiences and empowerment of Black people.  Additionally, the rigid influence of the Black church's traditionally anti-homosexual stance has contributed to attitudes that repress and stigmatize Black SGLs.  The lack of acknowledgment and support in the Black community has shunted multitudes of same gender loving African descended people to the White community to endure racism, isolation from their own communities, and cultural insensitivity.

The high visibility of the white gay community along with the absence of illumination on same gender loving experience contributes to the tendency in Black communities to overlook and ridicule same gender loving relationships as alien or aberrant.  The SGL movement has inspired national dialogue on diverse ways of loving in the Black community.  The term same gender loving explicitly acknowledges loving within same-sex relationships, while encouraging self-love.

The designation, same gender loving has served as a wake up call for Blacks to acknowledge diverse ways of loving and being, and has provided an opportunity for Blacks and other people of color to claim, nurture and honor their significance within their families and communities.






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In This Week's Gatekeepers Issue
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Now That You Know How To Do It Better, Find Intimacy with Someone To Do It Better With
Friday Forum Recap (05|13|11): Does Your God Mind How You Love?
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Topic  For  This  Friday,  May  27th,  2011       
  
Now That You Know How To Do It Better,
Find Intimacy With Someone To Do It Better With  
 
Facilitated by Kyle Doyle   
 
SGL Romantic Male Couple 2   

Beauitful Male Bonding Kiss (b&w)
 
Is my sex life fulfilling?  
 
 
What constitutes sex?  
   
 
SGL Couple 27 (Grocery Shopping) 
 
 
How do I date?  How do I measure who I want to date?  
 
 
How do I create intimacy with another man?  
 
SGL Couple 4 (At The Beach) 
 
What does intimacy look like without sex?  
 
 
What happens when the sex and intimacy fail? Is it over? Should I leave?  
 
 
Finding my voice:  How do I identify and express my emotional and sexual needs?  
 
 Sleeping Bruthaz
 
How do we remove shame and guilt from our bedrooms?  
 
    
 
     
     
 
 
Friday  Forum  Recap
(Topic  Hi-lites  From  Friday,  May  13th,  2011) 
  
   
Facilitated  by   L.  Jett  Wilson  &  John  Singletary 
 
Black Jesus - Black Love
 
During Friday's Black Men's Xchange-New York dialogue, Brothers considered their relationship to spirit in the face of their sexuality from the following perspectives:
 
 
Black Jesus with Lox 
 
 
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Is homo sex wrong?
 
"No...Cause it feels right...It took a while [for me to arrive at that, but]..."
 
"It never felt wrong for me...It's always just felt right..."

"I'm not okay with it because I grew up in a homophobic home..."

"The act of homo sex isn't wrong...If anybody attacks me for it...I attack back...It's none of your business..."

 "I was thinking back and wondering why did I feel ashamed [about my sex]...Bathhouses...I wonder if it was the circumstances [under which I had sex]...or, because I thought the sex [itself] was wrong...Falling in love was what brought me out of feeling a shamed...When it was done in the right circumstance..."

"It's tough to be able to stand as a same gender loving man...and be able to defend yourself..."

"I think sometimes there is a callous or scar tissue that forms around [something that is stigmatized]...Even the concept that my sex life is private is a reflection of a belief that it's wrong...Heterosexuals have no problem admitting their sex...If it's private...[it's hidden, and that implies that it's wrong]..."

{Facilitator says, "I was thinking back to when our sexuality started forming...Was there a moment when you realized [or first believed] it was wrong?..."}

"My mother took me to a therapist...The conversations [I had with the therapist] were great...He told her, you don't have to bring him here any more...[My mother] didn't like that...Then she took me to a pastor..."

"I knew from the time I was a toddler that I was attracted to males...I was prematurely sexualized by an older cousin one weekend when I was four...The cousin, who I would later learn was fourteen or fifteen that weekend he spent with us...taught me to felate him over the course of the weekend...While I didn't experience it as traumatic at the time...I just remember being thrilled that I had this beautiful creature's complete and undivided attention...The event did trip a switch that I would not be able to turn off for a very long time thereafter...And, one night when I was five...It was bedtime and I was sitting on the bed with my father...My brothers were in the kitchen with our mother...I was looking at my father's penis through his pajamas...And, with my heart racing, I reached over and clutched his penis, asking, 'Daddy, what's that?'...He recoiled, barking...'That's my penis! And, you must never touch another person's penis!'...And, while I didn't really understand what sex was yet...That was the moment I first realized homo sex was wrong..."

{Facilitator asks, "Has anyone ever prayed to have homosexuality taken away?"...  [Many participants raise their hands]..."Questioned whether or not they were cursed?"... [Many raise their hands]..."Been ridiculed by family"...[More hands]..."Out in the street? [More hands]..."What does that do to us?"}

"It depends on how secure you are in yourself...By now, I'm quite secure...As a child, any time I met a boy I was attracted to, I took him home and introduced him to my mother...As I got older, I would learn that it wasn't accepted...[but, I learned better]..."
 
 
 
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Is there a connection between spirituality and sex?

"Yes...spirituality is an expression of how you feel connectivity to another person...and also for procreation...Usually someone's sexual habits or sexual life...Persons who are connected to the realm of spirituality tend to have a healthier sex life and less sex...People who are connected to the negative realm of sexuality have more sex and more destructive sex..."

"For me, sex is a spiritual act...a spiritual expression...I used to keep spirituality over here, and sex over here...Once I brought them together, sex was better...It involves how I treat my partner and how I expect my partner to treat me...[We] have conversations about what we will do...how fast or slow...You need to make love to me spiritually...and to my mind, before you can make love to my body..."

{Facilitator says, "That's not the same as being religious[ly] observant...[where there is moralizing about what people do with each other]..."}

"[Spirituality] is not a concrete thing...[It's] another view of yourself]"

"For me, spirituality is essence...There is a Principle or Force by which the universe functions...that flows through all things...That is the essence of all things...Some call it God...or, Yaweh...or, Jehovah...or, Buddah...or, Oludumare...But all relate to the essence...And for human kind, it is the essence of my self...My divinity...Some call it Creator...That part of me that reflects my own capacity to be creative and to create...and I am creative sexually..."
{Facilitator says, "Spirituality is a relationship with that thing...[that] force..."}

"When we talk about spirituality as a connective thing...I'm hearing a lot of ego in people's descriptions...If everybody's so connected, why aren't we all getting married and celebrating our sexuality [wherever we go]...John-Martin talks about how many of us [SGL Black men] are still playing darting eye games with each other out in public...If we're so connected to spirituality...why aren't we all happy, and all getting married?..."

"If you don't have a basis for the first question [Is homo sex wrong?] you're not going to be able to answer the second question [Is there a connection between spirituality and sex?]...For me, yes, it's wrong...We rationalize it...Is sex wrong?...No...It's a form of communication...Is homo sex wrong?...Yes...I don't know why I participate in it...We confuse our happiness sometimes with joy...There's still a void for me sometimes at the end of the day...Yeah, I do...I think it's wrong...I think that, that's why we are here...For me, I think we justify it...And spirituality..."

{Facilitator asks, "What is the void?...Can you describe it?..."}

"[The] void is a lot of difficult things...I grew up with just my mom...So, there's no father figure...And, the males that were around took advantage of that..."

{Facilitator asks, "Was there loneliness in that?"}

"Yeah...If I wasn't lonely, I wouldn't be here [right now]...That conviction [that it's wrong] for me, it's God...He tells me...I let you go out here and do what you want to do, and you still feel [empty]..."
 
   
The Spirit of Intimacy - Ancient African Teachings{Facilitator asks, "Do you love yourself?} "Yeah..." {Facilitator asks, "How do you know that you love yourself?"} "Cause I'm still here..." {Facilitator says, "May I offer that the void that you're feeling is a lack of love, and a lack of self-love...As Black men, from the Middle Passage, through enslavement...through  sharecropping, the public school to prison pipeline...we are taught that we are [unlovable]"...[He reads a passage from Sonbufo Some's "The Spirit of Intimacy"..."'In the village homosexuality is seen differently...because all sexuality is spiritually based'..."For me, God is Love...That void is the absence of love...To be alone is painful...A loveless place..."} 

"I was kind of saddened by what you shared, But I can relate to it...I have nineteen journals dating back to when I was in grad school in the nineties...Therapy...I don't believe that [homo sex] is wrong consciously...But then, my boy friend tried to kiss me in public in the store around the corner yesterday, and I was [a little put off by it] like...'Come on Baby'...When did I stop thinking it?...It took a lot of work...When I think of salvation [it's] the complete and total acceptance of myself..."

"I hated myself... I felt a void...My parents told me, 'You're going to hell'...I started drinking...and doing drugs...Last year, I tried to kill myself...I wound up going to a therapist...The therapist said, 'Say it out loud'...[I told her,] 'Miss, I can't say that'...[She said,] 'It's who you are, and until you do, you won't start to heal'...And I finally said, 'I'm a Black, gay man'...My prayer every day was for God to take this cup from me...I'm twenty-eight-years-old...I pray every night...I get everything else I want...Why not this?...Something's wrong here..."

"When I was a boy...After I learned that homosexuality was wrong...or, learned the commonly held belief that homosexuality is wrong...I hated myself because I bought into the lie of my inferiority...I believed the myth that my homosexuality made me an abomination before God...And I was angry at God...I cursed God...I raged at god...Because I believed God had cursed me...And, I raged at Him, telling Him He was going to show me wherefore He had cursed me...And, it took me many years of different processes of self-reflection, including over a decade of therapy with different therapists to unlearn the lie that my homosexuality made me wrong...and that, it was the people who would make me wrong who were wrong...But, before I unlearned the lie, I engaged in all kinds of sex that was unaffirming...As a pubescent boy I began frequenting public restrooms...I now realize, I believed that, if my sex is shit, where better to have it, than in a shit house?...By now, I love myself and respect myself and it is that love and respect of myself that enables me to go out into the community that I love and attempt to assist them in unlearning the lie of our inferiority..."

"I do believe there are different levels of loving yourself...I know I matter...My choices matter...I don't give a shit about what anybody else thinks...For me, I didn't come here for a forum [to tell me] this is how Black people deal with it...I work for the government...When I go out [I see all kinds of people]...White people go through this [too]...questioning their sexuality...I keep doing it, and I don't know why, but I don't think it's a lack of love...God loves me right now more than I do...I want to get to the point where I love me as much as God does...I feel like every time I do this [have homo sex] I drive another wedge between me and God...I've been through a lot of different foster homes...I think of one of my foster mothers as my mother...I asked my mother...'Is it wrong?'...I asked why He won't take it from me...After I have sex, I try to wash the skin off me..."

"You are a by-product of a system you live in...You work for the government?...[You do indeed]...They will arrest a five-year-old Black child and put him in handcuffs to shame him [into believing he's a criminal]...There's a lot of rich White people who start wars and then we have to go and fight them...One thing that helped me was identifying myself...When I dropped Nigga and faggot, I began to know who I really am...Our families need us...Black people are the first people on the planet, which means that Black homosexuals were the first homosexuals on the planet..."

{Facilitator asks, "How many of you...if you care to share it...have ever contemplated suicide?..."} [Around half the room raise their hands.]

"That was my contemplation just two days ago...I don't think it's about healing...It's about learning...I don't think I'm more broken than anybody else...I don't even know if my sexuality is why I contemplated it...I don't feel like identifying that as an open wound for me..."

"You can't fix [our Brother]...You can empathize with him...but you can't fix him...You can say, 'I hear where you're at'...But, whether or not he lives or dies is up to him...The intention is to help...But, the masculinized energy is to fix...My experience of the universe has to be [mine]...I've had sex with hundreds of men, women and a few who are making some decisions in-between...and it was all beautiful, because nobody was being degraded...I do not know the mind of God...I do know that I am an aspect of God...In truth, you are the truth that you seek...Your mission was to come here to be phucked up [so you could work it out and find the truth]..."

"I was like him twelve years ago...I was a closed container...Nobody could tell me nothin...I didn't care how many degrees you had or nothin...[It wasn't] Until I was on my deathbed ready to die that I said...Somebody help me..."

"Like Brother was saying...You can't hear something until you do...The thing is, you do get to hear when you get to hear...Everyone is not going to hear tonight...But don't stop saying [what is real for you]...I didn't see anybody disrespecting this Brother...This is BMX...If you don't expect to hear something about Blackness, and [what is distinct about] our experience...[Then] there's some delusion going on...Just like pro-Black doesn't mean anti-White...We're conditioned to believe that if we focus on what's unique to us, [there's some sort of betrayal being perpetrated]...When we say that we have different experiences than White people have, that's truth...and, if you don't get to that, there's a delusion [going on]...When we speak of homosexuality as wrong...The [question] is...Where did you get that information from?...Where are the facts?...Where did the messages come from?...What's trying to be done to us?...And, who's doing it?..."
{Facilitator says, "Sometimes good work does not feel good, and sometimes, what feels good is not good work...Let's focus on the healing...We can uncover the wound ad infinitum...But, let's focus on the healing..."}  
 
{Facilitator says, "Sometimes good work does not feel good, and sometimes, what feels good is not good work...Let's focus on the healing...We can uncover the wound ad infinitum...But, let's focus on the healing..."}
 
 
 
   
 

 

Upcoming  Topics:  BMX-NY  2011  Spring  Calendar          

(PLEASE NOTE THAT TOPICS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE;
WEEKLY E-NEWSLETTERS WILL REFLECT ANY NEW CHANGES)

           
      
Friday, June 3rd, 2011
TO BE ANNOUNCED 
 
 
Friday, June 10th, 2011
Taking Responsibility For The 'L' in SGL
(Facilitated by Chad Franklin & L. Jett Wilson)
 
 
Friday, June 17th, 2011
Thriving or Surviving, Which Are You?: The Resource Quotient
(Facilitated by Kyle Doyle)
 
 
Friday, June 24th, 2011
How Do We Flex Our Political Muscles As SGL Men?
(Facilitated by Anthony Truly & Tommie Thompson)
 
 
Saturday, June 25th, 2011
2nd Annual Harlem Pride Event
(Currently Scheduled For Marcus Garvey Park > 12 NOON - 6PM)
 
Harlem Pride Logo 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
BMX  National  News
A  BMX  National  Leadership  Summit  &  Retreat  Reflection 
                

"Healing, Strategic Intelligence, Self-Love & Discovery"
(Friday, May 6th - Monday, May 9th, 2011)
 
West Sonoma Inn & Spa Entrance Sign

Tall Tree with Map


Some comments made by the brotherhood during the retreat: 
 
"We worked together as a collective team"
 
"The information was excellent"

 
 BMX National Retreat (2011) - Cleo Talking
 AmASSI and BMX Founder Cleo Manago
Addressing The Brotherhood During The 4-Day Retreat
 
 
   
"We need more time at the retreat"
 
"It was a bonding experience"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Sofa Bruthaz 
 

"It was a brotherhood, can't wait to see each other again"
 
"The place was nice, the information was great"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Two Bruthaz Talking 
 
 
"The neutrality stood out"

"I  found my voice"
 
 
 BMX National Retreat (2011) - Young Bruthaz In Van 1
 

"There was great energy, people"

"It was motivational"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Bruthaz Listening On
 
 

"Brings together like minded people"

"It was incredible the size of the participants (40) and the hugeness of the retreat"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Camera & Lights Set-up
 

"I really loved the relationship panel.  More people should know that we have sustaining relationships"

"It was beyond my imagination"
 
 
BMX National Retreat (2011) - Young Bruthaz In Van 2
 

"I saw my best self represented"

"Having attended other MSM leadership retreats which were catty, no support, competition, and violence, this one had support, self love, and teaching."
   
 
 
 
 
 
Community  Corner  Announcements 
 

25th  Annual  ADODI  Summer  Retreat
Wednesday  July  20th  -  Sunday,  July  24th,  2011
White Eagle Conference Center
Hamilton, New York 

ADODI Summer Retreat (2011) - African Masks
Official ADODI Website:  ADODIonline.com



Greetings from The Brotherhood of ADODI
 
We invite all same-gender loving men of African heritage to join us in the gathering for our 25th annual summer retreat:
 
The ADODI Promise:
Claiming the Legacy, Living The Legend
 
If, as Joseph Beam postulated in 1986, "Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act..:" then the ADODI Brotherhood is surely revolutionary. It lies with each of us to ensure that this life affirming movement does not become simply an historical moment.
 
We gather together in July 2011 to conjure the legendary qualities of the ADODI Brotherhood. We journey forth to hold one another and affirm the fearless vision and life-saving, life-giving mission of black men loving black men. We congregate to appreciate the lives - both past and present - that define our tribe of caring, compassionate community among same-gender-loving (SGL) men of African descent. This summer we join together and share our commitment, knowledge, skill, passion and evolving aspirations of freedom, so that our beloved tribe may thrive 25 years more!
 
For this special 25th summer gathering we invoke the idea of
"legends" to honor the values, traditions, ancestors and historical significance of the ADODI Brotherhood. We call forth the notion of "legacy" to center our spirits on the seemingly modest gifts turned into grand treasures - our inheritance of loving intent and beloved community called ADODI. As trustees and beneficiaries of this legacy, we have our own bequests to the future to consider. This year's Retreat is dedicated to celebrating that legacy, and envisioning the future. As we benefit from the fruits grown by those who have gone before us, so the future of the brotherhood rests on our shoulders.
    

ADODI Summer Retreat (2011) - White Eagle Collage

ADODI Summer Retreat (2011) Registration Form (PDF)

  
Registration for the 25th Annual ADODI Summer Retreat is now available online, too!!!
 
Visit www.ADODIonline.com and click on The Adodi Annual
Summer Retreat on the banner to be taken to the Retreat info.
page.
 
You will need to create a login to ADODInline.com to register for the Retreat. Above the Retreat information tabs is where you click to create your free account to access the ADODIonline community.
 
You may register online now and mail your payment(s) in later, or you can register and using a credit card via PayPal. (if you pay using a credit card, a $15.00 service fee is added onto your registration price).
  
Registration Fee Information 
If paid in full by May 31, '11 ............ $700.00
After May 31, '11............................... $800.00
 
 
Round trip coach bus transportation will be provided from the  
Adam Clayton Powell Jr State Office Building 
163 West 125th Street
(between Lenox Avenue/Malcolm X Blvd and Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd)
Harlem, New York City 10027
 
 
 

 
  
New BlackFest, The (logo)Official Website: TheNewBlackfest.org
 
 
   
THE NEW BLACK FEST is A THEATER FESTIVAL.
 
THE NEW BLACK FEST  
with guest curators Judy Tate and Godfrey Simmons  
in association with  
651 ARTS
 
presents
 
 
THE AMERICAN SLAVERY PROJECT
 
In recognition of the Sesquicentennial of the Civil War (now through 2015), The New Black Fest with Guest Curators Judy Tate and Godfrey Simmons, launch the American Slavery Project Series, a monthly reading series that celebrates the work of African American playwrights who boldly and refreshingly explore slavery and/or the Civil War. The purpose behind the American Slavery Project is to initiate new conversations around theater's role in counteracting the increasing revisionism in our political/social discourse about the Civil War and slavery. More importantly, the American Slavery Project aims to promote a generation of African-American voices who are telling the diverse and rich stories from an era that most adversely affected us. The series runs from mid-March through Juneteenth.
 
Schedule of Events
 
Monday, March 7, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Fast Blood by Judy Tate
 
It's 1845.  Ham and Effie, an enslaved couple, stumble across the body of a hanging man who's miraculously still alive.  It is their connection to this mysterious and seductive stranger that tests their faith, love and ultimately, their own notions of slavery.
 
Location:  CAP 21 - 18 W. 18th Street, 6th Floor, NYC
 
Post Show Conversation:  The Human Face of Slavery
 
Kick-Off Wine and Cheese Reception will follow.
 
Co-presented by CAP 21
 
 
 
Monday, April 4, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Sweet Maladies by Zakiyyah Alexander
 
It's been two years since slavery was abolished and three recently freed slavegirls, stuck in 'the big house', play the only game they know: history.  But what happens when the game turns sticky sweet and deadly?
 
Location:  Mark Morris Dance Center - 3 Lafayette Avenue, Fort Greene, Brooklyn
 
Post Show Conversation:  Tiny Rebellions
 
 
 
Monday, May 2, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Living in the Wind by Michael Bradford
 
Georgia. 1876. Isaiah, a former plantation stud, steps into Sarah's front yard after a twelve-year absence. Married as slaves and separated by their owner on the night of their marriage, Sarah and Isaiah attempt to salvage a relationship.  However, difficulties arise as new lovers, past conquests, and the deadly reminder of slavery stand before them.
 
Location:  The Drilling Company - 236 W. 78th Street, NYC
 
Post Show Conversation:  Slavery's Impact on Male Sexual Identity
 
Co-presented by The Drilling Company
 
 
 
Monday, June 6, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Voices from Harpers Ferry by Dominic Taylor
 
In 1859, twenty-one men, including five free Black men, attacked the arsenal at Harpers Ferry along with the legendary John Brown.  This exciting new play probes into the lives of the five Black men who fought alongside Brown, and more importantly, Osborne P. Anderson, the only Black man who survived to tell the tale of Harpers Ferry.
 
Location:  Audubon Ballroom - 3940 Broadway, btw 165th & 166th Streets, NYC 
 
Post Show Conversation:  John Brown and Civil War Uprisings
 
Co-Presented by The Classical Theatre of Harlem
 
 
 
Wednesday, June 15, 2011 at 7 p.m.
 
Safe House by Keith Josef Adkins
 
1843.  Kentucky.  Addison Pedigrew is a free man of color who has big dreams of opening a shoe business.  His family also secretly helps fugitives flee to Liberia.  When a young woman knocks on his door seeking refuge, Addison's loyalty to race and family finally clashes with his unrelenting desire for success.
 
Location:  Audubon Ballroom - 3940 Broadway, btw 165th & 166th Streets, NYC 
 
Post Show Conversation:  Free People of Color and the Trek to Liberia
 
Co-Presented by The Classical Theatre of Harlem
 
 
 
Please check back for updates:  TheNewBlackfest.org
 
THE NEW BLACK FEST is URGENT.
 
The New Black Fest is a movement. It's a call to action inspired by the state of Black theater in the 21st century. It is a bold step motivated by a growing need within the Black theater community for serious change and boundless opportunity.
 
THE NEW BLACK FEST is A COMMUNITY.
 
The New Black Fest is a gathering of artists, thinkers, activists and audiences who are dedicated to stretching, interrogating and uplifting the Black aesthetic.
 
THE NEW BLACK FEST is VISIONARY.
 
The New Black Fest is a commitment to celebrate, advocate and showcase diverse and provocative work in a festival of Black theater artists from throughout the Diaspora.  It is a convening of visionaries who are determined to reintroduce the way black theater is perceived, who are ready to chart out resolutions and promote action through panel discussions, workshops, and putting both artists and community members on the hot seat.
 
THE NEW BLACK FEST is FOR EVERYONE.
 
The New Black Fest is for everyone and anyone who supports elevating and celebrating Black theater around the world, in a fresh way.
 
THE NEW BLACK IS NOW.
 
WE ARE THE NEW BLACK.
 
For reservations, e-mail reservations@...

The New Black Fest couldn't do this work without your support! A donation of any size will help! You can make your tax-deductible donation here
 
  
The New Black Fest  
is a sponsored project of Fractured Atlas, a non-profit arts service organization. Contributions for the purposes of The New Black Fest must be made payable to Fractured Atlas and are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law.


The New Black Fest
Keith Josef Adkins & J. Holtham
Co-Artistic Directors






  
 
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Ethel  Waters  (1896  -  1977) 

Ethel Waters 
 
Ethel Waters was an American blues, jazz and gospel vocalist and actress. She frequently performed jazz, big band, and pop music, on the Broadway stage and in concerts, although she began her career in the 1920s singing blues. Her best-known recordings includes, "Dinah", "Birmingham Bertha," "Stormy Weather," "Hottentot Potentate," and "Cabin In The Sky," as well as her version of the spiritual, "His Eye is on the Sparrow." Ms. Waters was the second African American to be nominated for an Academy Award.

After her start in Baltimore, Waters toured on the black vaudeville circuit. As she described it later, "I used to work from nine until unconscious."Despite her early success, she fell on hard times and joined a carnival, traveling in freight cars along the carnival circuit, eventually reaching Chicago. Waters enjoyed her time with the carnival and recalled, "the roustabouts and the concessionaires were the kind of people I'd grown up with, rough, tough, full of larceny towards strangers, but sentimental and loyal to their friends and co-workers." She did not last long with them, though, and soon headed south to Atlanta. There, she worked in the same club with Bessie Smith, who demanded that Waters not compete in singing blues opposite her. Waters conceded to the veteran blues headliner and instead sang ballads and popular songs, and danced. Perhaps today best known for her blues voice, Waters then was to sing, dance, play and star in musicals, plays and movies, and later in TV; but, she returned to singing blues whenever opportunity presented.

Ethel Waters 2Waters obtained her first Harlem job at Edmond's Cellar, a club that had a black patronage. She specialized in popular ballads and became an actress in a blackface comedy called Hello 1919. The jazz historian Rosetta Reitz points out that by the time Waters returned to Harlem in 1921, women blues singers were among the most powerful entertainers in the country. In 1921, Waters became the fifth Black woman to make a record, on the tiny Cardinal Records label. She later joined Black Swan Records, where Fletcher Henderson was her accompanist. Waters later commented that Henderson tended to perform in a more classical style than she would prefer, often lacking "the damn-it-to-hell bass." According to Waters, she influenced Henderson to practice in a "real jazz" style.

She recorded with Black Swan from 1921 through 1923. In early 1924, Paramount bought the Black Swan label, and she stayed with Paramount through 1924. Waters then first recorded for Columbia Records in 1925, achieving a hit with her voicing of "Dinah"-which was voted a Grammy Hall of Fame Award in 1998. Soon after, she started working with Pearl Wright, and together they toured in the South. In 1924, Waters played at the Plantation Club on Broadway. She also toured with the Black Swan Dance Masters. With Earl Dancer, she joined what was called the "white time" Keith Vaudeville Circuit, a traditional white-audience based vaudeville circuit combined with screenings of silent movies. They received rave reviews in Chicago and earned the unheard of salary of US$1,250 in 1928. In 1929, Harry Akst helped Wright and Waters compose a version of "Am I Blue?," her signature tune.

Although she was considered a blues singer during the pre-1925 period, Waters belonged to the Vaudeville-style style similar to Mamie Smith, Viola McCoy, and Lucille Hegamin. While with Columbia, she introduced many popular standards including "Dinah", "Heebie Jeebies", "Sweet Georgia Brown", "Someday, Sweetheart", "Am I Blue?" and "(What Did I Do To Be So) Black and Blue".

During the 1920s, Waters performed and was recorded with the ensembles of Will Marion Cook and Lovie Austin. As her career continued, she evolved toward being a blues and Broadway singer, performing with artists such as Duke Ellington.

She remained with Columbia through 1931. She then signed with Brunswick in 1932 and remained until 1933 when she went back to Columbia. She signed with Decca in late 1934 for only two sessions, as well as a single session in early 1938. She recorded for the specialty label "Liberty Music Shops" in 1935 and again in 1940. Between 1938 and 1939, she recorded for Bluebird.

In 1933, Waters made a satirical all-Black film entitled Rufus Jones for President, which featured then-child performer Sammy Davis Jr. as Rufus Jones. She went on to star at the Cotton Club, where, according to her autobiography, she "sang 'Stormy Weather' from the depths of the private hell in which I was being crushed and suffocated." She took a role in the Broadway musical revue As Thousands Cheer in 1933, where she was the first Black woman in an otherwise white show. She had three gigs at this point; in addition to the show, she starred in a national radio program and continued to work in nightclubs. She was the highest paid performer on Broadway at that time. MGM hired Lena Horne as the ingenue in the all-Black musical Cabin in the Sky, and Waters starred as Petunia in 1942, reprising her stage role of 1940. The film, directed by Vincente Minnelli, was a success, but Waters, offended by the adulation accorded Horne and feeling her age, went into something of a decline.

She began to work with Fletcher Henderson again in the late 1940s. She was nominated for a Best Supporting Actress Academy Award in 1949 for the film Pinky. In 1950, she won the New York Drama Critics Award for her performance opposite Julie Harris in the play The Member of the Wedding. Waters and Harris repeated their roles in the 1952 film version of Member of the Wedding'' In 1950, Waters starred in the television series Beulah but quit after complaining that the scripts' portrayal of African-Americans was "degrading." She later guest starred in 1957 and 1959 on NBC's The Ford Show, Starring Tennessee Ernie Ford. In the 1957 episode, she sang "Cabin in the Sky."

Rosetta Reitz called Waters "a natural". Her "songs are enriching, nourishing. You will want to play them over and over again, idling in their warmth and swing. Though many of them are more than 50 years old, the music and the feeling are still there."  
 
 
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The Bawabisi SGL Symbol

Bawabisi SGL Symbol (Partial Transparency)

The SGL symbol, the Bawabisi, is inspired by Nigerian Nsibidi script and West African Adrinkra symbols. The two facing semi-circles represent unity and love. The figure has been split symmetrically in half to suggest parts of a whole that mirror each other. Dots are often used in Adinkra symbols to represent commitment and pluralism. The split and dots, with the addition of color, suggest the concept of gender. The circle encompassing the figure reinforces the idea of connectedness despite duality, suggesting the idea of two-spirited.





About  BMX- NY...
 
  



 THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE - NEW YORK (BMX-NY) was founded in Harlem in 2002 and is a gathering for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual Black men to powerfully and respectfully address issues that impact their lives, and to connect with one another in a positive, affirming, nurturing and transformational environment. Ages 18 and up.

 


BMX  Mission  Statement

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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE (BMX) was founded in 1989 by activist, writer and behavioral health expert Cleo Manago, as an instrument of healing and empowerment for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual African descended men. The mission of the Black Men's Xchange (BMX) is to affirm, heal, educate, unify and promote well-being and critical thinking among Black people - 18 and up - diverse in sexuality, class, culture and philosophy.  Black Men's Xchange (BMX) conducts activities that promote healthy self-concept, sexual health, constructive decision making, and cultural affirmation among same-gender-loving (SGL), bisexual and heterosexual Black populations. BMX affirms and educates Black men (and the community at-large) while providing tools for self-determination, community responsibility, self-actualization and the prevention of health threats (e.g. HIV, isolation, substance and other addictions, and mental instability). BMX creates an environment that advances black culture and involves identifying and unlearning ingrained anti-homosexual and anti-black male and female conditioning,
 
BMX is built on a philosophy that embraces same gender loving experience as intrinsic to everyday Black life.  Integral to BMX's approach is the understanding that, in order to decrease internal and external anti-homosexual thinking, and demystify differences around diverse ways of living and loving Black people must engage in supportive dialogue with each other and the community.
 
At BMX we believe that self-determination is crucial in achieving success toward healing and empowerment.  We understand that our cultural and experiential uniqueness requires a uniquely focused and precise approach.  Affirming strategies born out of our own experience is powerful; hence, the adoption of the terms, Black, African American and Same Gender Loving (SGL).


  
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The Black Men's Xchange-New York And Our Allies At The Millions More Movement (MMM) In Washington, DC
(October 15th, 2005) 


 
The Term Same Gender Loving

The term Same Gender Loving (SGL) emerged in the early '90s to offer Black women who love women and Black men who love men (and other people of color) a way of identifying that resonated with the uniqueness of Black life and culture.  Before this many African descended people, knowing little of our history regarding homosexuality and bi-sexuality, took on European symbols and identifications as a means of embracing our sexualities, including: Greek lambdas, German pink triangles, and the white-gay-originated rainbow flag, in addition to the terms gay, and lesbian.

The term gay, coined as an identification by White male homosexuals in the '50s, was cultivated in an exclusive White male environment.  By the '60s, the growing Gay Liberation movement developed in a climate largely excluding Blacks and women.  In response to this discrimination, White women coined the identification lesbian, a word derived from the Greek island, Lesbos. The Lesbian movement, in turn, helped define a majority White movement, called feminism.  In response to the racism experienced by women of color from White feminists, celebrated author, Alice Walker introduced the term womanist.

The term womanist identified women of color concerned with both the sexual and racial oppression of women.  In this spirit of self-naming and ethnic-sexual pride, the term same gender loving(SGL) was introduced to enhance the lives and amplify the voices of homosexual and bi-sexual people of color, to provide a powerful identification not marginalized by racism in the gay community or by "homophobic" attitudes in society at large.

As gay culture grew and established enclaves in San Francisco, Chelsea, Provincetown, Key West and other territories, Blacks especially, were carded and rejected from many establishments.  Even today Blacks, Latinos and Asians often appear in gay publications and other media solely as potential sexual objects.  Ironically, gay rights activism was modeled on the Civil Rights and Black Power Movements initiated by African Americans.

In the years since the advent of the Gay Rights movement many Black SGLs have found scant space for the voices, experiences and empowerment of Black people.  Additionally, the rigid influence of the Black church's traditionally anti-homosexual stance has contributed to attitudes that repress and stigmatize Black SGLs.  The lack of acknowledgment and support in the Black community has shunted multitudes of same gender loving African descended people to the White community to endure racism, isolation from their own communities, and cultural insensitivity.

The high visibility of the white gay community along with the absence of illumination on same gender loving experience contributes to the tendency in Black communities to overlook and ridicule same gender loving relationships as alien or aberrant.  The SGL movement has inspired national dialogue on diverse ways of loving in the Black community.  The term same gender loving explicitly acknowledges loving within same-sex relationships, while encouraging self-love.

The designation, same gender loving has served as a wake up call for Blacks to acknowledge diverse ways of loving and being, and has provided an opportunity for Blacks and other people of color to claim, nurture and honor their significance within their families and communities.






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#1250 From: "Gregory Thomas" <blackgayamerica@...>
Date: Mon Jun 6, 2011 7:39 pm
Subject: BlackGayAmerica.com
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BlackGayAmerica.com, one of the fastest-growing online communities, offers a
global networking platform, specifically dedicated to the exchange of news,
ideas and opinions related to the lives and lifestyles of the Black and Hispanic
gay community. The website is free to join, and offers a unique opportunity to
dialogue, find resources or people, connect with others, or simply share, for
millions of gay men and women world wide. We are also giving away a free ipad
every month to one lucky member once a month until Dec 30, 2011.

#1251 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Thu Jun 9, 2011 9:52 am
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): Tribute To Our Ancestors; THAPC' thirty5-in-5 Dance Performance; GRAND RE-OPENING: Juice Bar Uptown Veg; Ma-JaDe; and FUN! FUN! FUN! At BAM's DanceAfrica 2011
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Hey African FAM,

It's been a long minute since I've updated Nubian Knights Network. Frankly, I've just been a little burned out from it, so I gotta take those breaks every so often. And like a lotta other people, I'm just hustling (in a good way and legally, LOL!) out there with videography and photography gigs to keep myself afloat.

So... a bunch of news and information to report on. The month of June is always a packed month full of stuff and this year is no is no different.

Read on y'all...

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ROD (aka BIG ROD)





22nd Annual Tribute To Our Ancestors Of The Middle Passage
Saturday, June 11th, 2011 - Coney Island, Brooklyn (NYC)
12 Noon To Dusk

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/22nd-annual-tribute-to-our-ancestors-of.html

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THPAC's 35th Season Presents Thirty5-in-5 - SOULS OF OUR FEET: PEOPLE OF COLOR DANCE FESTIVAL
June 19th -23rd, 2011 @ 7:30PM (NYC)

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/thpacs-35th-season-presents-thirty5-in.html

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GRAND RE-OPENING: Juice Bar Uptwon Veg
NEW BUSINESS: Island Salad
Both In Harlem on 125th Street - Two Vegetarian Black Businesses

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/grand-re-opening-juice-bar-uptwon-veg.html

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Ma-JaDe: A Sistah Who Makes Outstanding African "Sa" (Jewelry)
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/ma-jade-sistah-who-makes-outstanding.html

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FUN! FUN! FUN! At BAM's DanceAfrica 2011 (A Short Reflection)
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/fun-fun-fun-at-bams-danceafrica-2011.html

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#1252 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Wed Jun 15, 2011 12:08 am
Subject: TIME SENSITIVE and URGENT: Billy and Aaron (2010), Black SGL Film Back by Popular Demand (Wednesday, June 15th, 2011)
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Billy and Aaron,
Back by Popular Demand
 
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An audience favorite from last year's festival is back, for one night only. Wednesday, June 15 NewFest and Out & Equal Metro New York present Billy and Aaron, the award-winning short drama about African-American composer Billy Strayhorn... and his personal and professional consequences of his decision to live as an openly gay man within the homophobic jazz milieu of the 1940's. We'll also screen an excerpt from the documentary Marriage Equality: Byron Rush and the Fight for Fairness, followed by Q&A with filmmakers Rodney Evans and Thomas Allan Harris. The event is hosted by OUT@MTVN, the MTV Networks LGBT Employee Affinity Group.
 
When: Wednesday, June 15th at 6 pm
Where: 1515 Broadway ( btw West 44th and West 45th Streets )
Paramount Screening Room, 3rd floor
 
Registration & Networking 6:00 pm - 6:30 pm
Film screenings, discussion, and Q&A 6:30 - 7:30 pm
Networking 7:30 - 8:00 pm
Dress Code: Business Casual
 
Everyone is invited, but you must RSVP to attend. Please do so at outatmtvn@....

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ROD (aka BIG ROD)
N3 > Writings On My Black Wall: www.nubianknightsnetwork.com



#1253 From: Allen Joiner <falltacular@...>
Date: Tue Jun 14, 2011 12:36 pm
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#1254 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Tue Jun 14, 2011 1:34 pm
Subject: BMX National (06|17|2011): DADDY's LOVE: How Have Our Relationships with Our Fathers Shaped Us As SGL Men?
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The BMX National Gatekeepers  e-Newsletter
JUNE  17th, 2011
Black Men's Xchange-National

 
In This Week's Gatekeepers Issue
This Friday's BMX-NY Topic:
DADDY's LOVE: How Have Our Relationships with Our Fathers Shaped Us as SGL Men?
Friday Forum Recap (06|03|11): TAKING RESPONSIBILITY For The 'L' in SGL: The Politics of Love
Upcoming Topics: BMX- NY 2011 Spring Calendar
This Sunday's BMX-Baltimore Topic:
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.Welcome To The Black Men's Xchange National Gatekeepers e-Newsletter. This e-newsletter is for the BMX-New York chapter gathering on Friday, June 17th, 2011 .


 

Brothers, please if you would take the time and tell us about your experience at a BMX-NY meeting. This is a confidential Survey with no names required. We appreciate your time and comments as we continue to try and make your experience at BMX-NY one of true community.       

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BMX- New York  Topic  For  This  Friday,  June  17th,  2011       
   
DADDY's LOVE:
How Have Our Relationships with Our Fathers
Shaped Us As SGL Men?   
 
Black Father & Son Smiles    
     
 
What, if any role did your father play in your upbringing?
   
Black Father & Son Shaving

How would you characterize your relationship with your father or father figure(s) as a youth?
 

Was your father aware of your sexuality?  If so, in what regard did he hold it/you?
 
Black Father & Son (Back Lawn Talk) 1  
 
Black Father & Son (Back Lawn Talk) 2

Did your father ever have the sex talk with you?
 
 
How much of your perspective re manhood did you take from your father?
 
 
What did your father tell you about love and/or relationships?
    
Black Father & Son Share A Laugh (Railing)

For what, if anything are you grateful to your father?
 
 
How, if at all, would you say you are like your father?
    
Black Father & Son Talk
(Video Games)

Is our relationship with our fathers important?
 
Black Father & Baby Boy Reading Story
 
 
 
      
     
 
 
Friday  Forum  Recap
(BMX- NY  Topic  Hi-lites  From  Friday,  June  3rd,  2011) 
  
      
Facilitated  by   L.  Jett  Wilson  &  GM  Green  
 
Yolo (capture)
 
At Friday's exchange, towards Taking Responsibility for the 'L' in same gender loving (SGL), Brothers weighed-in on The Politics of Love through the following lenses:  
   
LOVE Wallpaper 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome 
 
 
If Black people have to unlearn self-hatred resulting from Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome on the way to becoming self-actualized, what must same gender loving men do?
 
{Facilitator says, "We talk about hegemony, which is the domination, in all areas of experience...politics, education, economics, language, [etc.]...of one culture by another...What is insidious about white supremacy, which is the [name for] the hegemony under which we live, is that it has taught us to believe that [as Black people] we are unlovable...So, if that is the case for the average Black person...Then, how much harder might it be for me to love myself as a same gender loving Black man?..."}
 
"I get frustrated...on Oprah and all these shows they say, 'If you don't love yourself, you can't love anybody else...But how [do I love myself]?..."
 
"Psychologist, Eric Fromm defines love as a fusion of care, respect, knowledge and responsibility for the other's spiritual growth...Slavery made it all but impossible for Blacks to love...The focus was on survival [as distinct from love]...We have all been enslaved because we have all been taught to love hetereosexually...hegemonically, we have all been taught to love heterosexually...If I can't love myself, can I love?...[In addition to Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome] I think we are also going through Post Traumatic Sexuality Syndrome..."
 
"Does having the Harlem...Brooklyn...Black Pride and Black History Month keep us under the Slave Syndrome?..."
 
{Facilitator says, "Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome is a psychological model conceived by Alwyn Nichols and elaborated on by Joy DeGruy...It was based on Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, where the researchers compared symptoms experienced by returning veterans  suffering with that anxiety disorder and discovered, symptom for symptom, they matched what Enslaved Africans and the generations of their offspring experience in our lives...When a person experiences trauma, they are taken to the hospital where they receive triage and then other kinds of remedies to treat the trauma...We have never received triage for the overwhelming assault of enslavement or for the traumas we've experienced since or continue to experience every day of our lives...If you've any question about what I mean...When you leave, go up to Broadway and hail a medallion cab..."}
 
"Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome is in the way we treat each other...When a Black person tell me something and I dismiss it...and then a White person tells me the same thing and I take it seriously...I've had to watch myself about that...It's something I used to do a lot..."
 
 
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There is a movement for marriage equality, politicizing Homosexuals' right to love each other and have that love sanctioned socially, economically and otherwise.  What are we doing about our love?
 
{Facilitator says, "Okay, it's time for the poll... How many among us are in committed relationships?..."} [Six people raise their hands] {That's about a-sixth of us...And, how many among us would like to be in a committed relationship?..."} [Most of the rest of the participants raise their hands] {"There is something to be said for the fact that, as is generally the case when we take these polls, many more of us profess to want to be in relationships than are...We talked about how our enslavement and how Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome has made learning to love ourselves a challenge...I submit that among the reasons why many more of us profess to want to be in committed relationships than are has some to do with these disruptions in our capacity to love ourselves and each other..."}
 
"Slavery broke up families...When I say I don't want to marry, I am saying, I am still a slave...I will not take a job unless there are domestic benefits [offered]...I am not three-fifths of a man...When I say I don't want the right [to marry], I'm saying I don't want the responsibility...I want to continue being a boy..."
 
Brutha In The Mirror
 
If I must embody love in order to attract the love I seek, how do I learn to do that?
 
"I learn to love myself by loving...By affirming that I deserve to love and be loved...That I am good enough...Self-love is [not necessarily] polite or silent or easy..."
 
Bruthaz Holding Hands On The Shores of Ghana
 
  
  

 

 

Upcoming  Topics:  BMX- NY  2011  Spring  Calendar          

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Friday, June 2011
Thriving or Surviving, Which Are You?: The Resource Quotient
(Facilitated by Kyle Doyle)
 
 
Friday, June 2011
How Do We Flex Our Political Muscles As SGL Men?
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2nd Annual Harlem Pride Event
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Beauford  Delaney  (1901  -  1979) 

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Beauford Delaney 2Beauford Delaney was born in Knoxville, Tennessee in 1901. He and his younger brother, born 1904, both started out drawing at an early age. Delaney moved to Boston, Massachusetts when he was a teenager. He studied at the Massachusetts Normal Art School, The South Boston School of Art, and the Copley Society. Beauford lived an unsettling life as an artist and was in constant need of funds to continue his work and studies. Delaney managed to meet, sketch, or paint a host of celebrities and by 1929, he moved to Harlem, New York during the height of the Harlem Renaissance was in full bloom. Delaney got to know Countee Cullin, W.E.B. Dubois, Louis Armstrong, Duke Ellington, and several other instrumental figures of the Harlem Renaissance. Delaney did work as part of the Harlem Artists Guild and worked at the studio of Charles Alston.

In the late 1950's, Delaney was able to reach Paris due to the beneficence of a friend. Although many of Beauford Delaney's works were close to being classified as abstract art, he never fully wanted this distinction.
 
 
Beauford Delaney Art - Delaney Baldwin  
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New York
His arrival in New York City at the time of the Harlem Renaissance was exciting. Harlem was then the centre of Black cultural life in the United States. But it was also the time of the "Great Depression" and it was this that Beauford was confronted with on his arrival. "Went to New York in 1929 from Boston all alone with very little money...this was the depression, and I soon discovered that most of these people were people out of work and just doing what I was doing - sitting and figuring out what to do for food and a place to sleep."


Beauford Delaney Art - can fire in the park 1946
Can Fire in the Park (oil on canvas, 1946)


In time, Delaney would establish himself as a well known part of the bohemianism of the art scene of the period. His friends included the "poet laureate" of the period, Countee Cullen, and he would also become the "spiritual father" to the young writer James Baldwin, and friends with artist Georgia O'Keeffe, writer Henry Miller and many others.

When he traveled to Harlem to visit his African-American friends and colleagues, Delaney made efforts to ensure that they knew little of his other social life in Greenwich Village. He feared that many of his Harlem friends would be uncomfortable or repelled by his homosexuality.

While he worked to incorporate African-American influences, such as the "Negro" idiom of jazz, into his own artwork, he often preferred to visit one of the clubs when he was in Harlem rather than join in the serious socio-political discussions or "Negro art" questions that were taking place at the 306 Group or the Harlem Artists Guild. Though he resisted thinking of himself as a Negro artist, Beauford had tremendous pride in Black achievement. He was also pleased to participate in a number of Black artists exhibitions with fellow artists like Jacob Lawrence, Romare Bearden, Hale Woodruff, Selma Burke, Richmond Barthe, Norman Lewis and his brother Joseph Delaney.

Beauford Delaney Art - Painting of Black Male

Beauford Delaney's life and struggle as an aging American artist living in Paris ended at age seventy-eight from alcoholism and Alzheimer's Disease.

Following his death, he was praised as a great and neglected painter but, with a few notable exceptions, the neglect continued.

A retrospective of his work at the Studio Museum in Harlem, a year before his death, did little to revive interest in his work. It was not until the 1988 exhibition Beauford Delaney: From Tennessee to Paris, curated by the French art dealer Philippe Briet, at the Philippe Briet Gallery, that Delaney's work was again exhibited in New York, followed by two retrospectives in the gallery: "Beauford Delaney: A Retrospective [50 Years of Light]" in 1991, and "Beauford Delaney: The New York Years [1929-1953]" in 1994.


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In 1985 James Baldwin described the impact of Delaney on his life, saying he was "the first living proof, for me, that a Black man could be an artist. In a warmer time, a less blasphemous place, he would have been recognised as my Master and I as his Pupil. He became, for me, an example of courage and integrity, humility and passion. An absolute integrity: I saw him shaken many times and I lived to see him broken but I never saw him bow."[17] He further wrote, "Perhaps I should not say, flatly, what I believe - that he is a great painter - among the very greatest; but I do know that great art can only be created out of love, and that no greater lover has ever held a brush."

Delaney's work has now been exhibited by, among others, the Philadelphia Museum of Art, Harvard University Art Museums, Art Institute of Chicago, Knoxville Museum of Art, The Minneapolis Institute of Arts, The Newark Museum, The Studio Museum in Harlem, and the Smithsonian American Art Museum.
 
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Beauford Delaney
Peintre · Painter
30 December 1901 - 26 March 1979
Born: Knoxville, Tennessee USA
Died: Paris, France
"I am home"
 
  




  
 
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The SGL symbol, the Bawabisi, is inspired by Nigerian Nsibidi script and West African Adrinkra symbols. The two facing semi-circles represent unity and love. The figure has been split symmetrically in half to suggest parts of a whole that mirror each other. Dots are often used in Adinkra symbols to represent commitment and pluralism. The split and dots, with the addition of color, suggest the concept of gender. The circle encompassing the figure reinforces the idea of connectedness despite duality, suggesting the idea of two-spirited.





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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE - NEW YORK (BMX-NY) was founded in Harlem in 2002 and is a gathering for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual Black men to powerfully and respectfully address issues that impact their lives, and to connect with one another in a positive, affirming, nurturing and transformational environment. Ages 18 and up.

 



About  The  BMX- Baltimore  Chapter...
 
  
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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE - BALTIMORE was founded in 2008 to provoke critical thinking; to teach Black men how to unlearn internalized oppression, and to give Black men the tools to deal with these issues. Ages 18 and up.
  
 


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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE (BMX) was founded in 1989 by activist, writer and behavioral health expert Cleo Manago, as an instrument of healing and empowerment for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual African descended men. The mission of the Black Men's Xchange (BMX) is to affirm, heal, educate, unify and promote well-being and critical thinking among Black people - 18 and up - diverse in sexuality, class, culture and philosophy.  Black Men's Xchange (BMX) conducts activities that promote healthy self-concept, sexual health, constructive decision making, and cultural affirmation among same-gender-loving (SGL), bisexual and heterosexual Black populations. BMX affirms and educates Black men (and the community at-large) while providing tools for self-determination, community responsibility, self-actualization and the prevention of health threats (e.g. HIV, isolation, substance and other addictions, and mental instability). BMX creates an environment that advances Black culture and involves identifying and unlearning ingrained anti-homosexual and anti-black male and female conditioning.
 
BMX is built on a philosophy that embraces same gender loving experience as intrinsic to everyday Black life.  Integral to BMX's approach is the understanding that, in order to decrease internal and external anti-homosexual thinking, and demystify differences around diverse ways of living and loving Black people must engage in supportive dialogue with each other and the community.
 
At BMX we believe that self-determination is crucial in achieving success toward healing and empowerment.  We understand that our cultural and experiential uniqueness requires a uniquely focused and precise approach.  Affirming strategies born out of our own experience is powerful; hence, the adoption of the terms, Black, African American and Same Gender Loving (SGL).
 

   
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Date: Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:16 pm
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#1256 From: German Rincn Perfetti <ghrinconperfetti@...>
Date: Mon Jun 20, 2011 11:10 pm
Subject: THE ORGANIZATION OF AMERICAN STATES SUPPORTS SEXUAL ORIENTATION AND GENDER IDENTITY.
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THE ORGANIZATION OF AMERICAN STATES SUPPORTS SEXUAL ORIENTATION AND GENDER IDENTITY.

At the Forty-First General Assembly of the OAS that was carried out in San Salvador on June seventh, all of the countries of the Americas and the Caribbean approved the resolution on “Human Rights, Sexual Orientation, and Gender Identity, which condemns discrimination, asking the countries to adopt measures that prevent, sancion, and erradicate it. They comdemned acts of violence and violations of human rights to intersex, transvestite, transexual, bisexual, lesbian, and gay people.

They invited the States to adopt a public policy against discrimination and to assure adequate protection to human rights defenders.

The Interamerican Commission of Human Rights and the Interamerican judicial Committee will prepare regional level studies, this being the greatest achievement in this fourth consecutive resolution.

This curious note was in the head of the Vatican State who lobbied against the resolution succeeding in getting Panama to leave a clarifying note on the heterosexual family and the subject of gender to only be understood as man and woman.  Once again we are being publicly persecuted by our homosexual colleagues in the Roman Catholic Church heirachy while privately we are invited into their beds.  How long will it be?

This work was accompanied by a colalition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans organizations from more than 20 countries who have been working for more than five years being present and making an impact on the Interamerican System.  (See the list below). 

Also attached the resolution.

Germn Humberto Rincn Perfetti

Latin American Representative of the International Lesbian and Gay Law Association www.ILGLaw.org

Alternate Regional Gay Representative:  ILGA-LAC ILGA www.ILGA.org

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AIREANA - Camila Zabala – Paraguay,

ASOCIACIN LIDERES EN ACCION –Germn Humberto Rincn Perfetti - Colombia,

ASPIDH ARCO IRIS – Mnica Hernndez – El Salvador,

COALITION ADVOCATING FOR INCLUSION OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION – Kareem Griffith – Trinidad and Tobago,

COLECTIVA MUJER y SALUD, Julie Betances - Repblica Dominicana,

COLECTIVO OVEJAS NEGRAS – Valeria Rubino – Uruguay,

COLECTIVO UNIDAD COLOR ROSA – Roxana Almendarez – Honduras,

COLOMBIA DIVERSA – Marcela Snchez – Colombia,

CORPORACIN PROMOCIN DE LA MUJER, Tania Correa - Ecuador,

DIVERLEX – Tamara Adrin – Venezuela,

DOMINICA CHAP – Daryl Phillip – Dominica,

FRONTE TRANS – Mario Snchez Prez –Mexico,

INSTITUTO RUNA – Belissa Andia – Per,

INTERNATIONAL GAY AND LESBIAN HUMAN RIGHTS COMMISSION LAC – Marcelo Ferreyra – Argentina,

J-FLAG – Jaevion Nelson – Jamaica,

AIDS FREE WORLD - Maurice Tomlinson – Jamaica,

MULABI-ARGENTINA – Fernando D’Elio – Argentina,

MULABI-COSTA RICA – Natasha Jimnez – Costa Rica,

ORGANIZACIN DE TRANSEXUALES POR LA DIGNIDAD DE LA DIVERSIDAD – Andrs Rivera Duarte – Chile,

ORGANIZACIN TRANS REINAS DE LA NOCHE – Johana Ramrez – Guatemala,

RED AFRO LGBTI - Edmilson Medeiros - BRAZIL, <<...>>

RED LATINOAMERICANA Y DEL CARIBE DE PERSONAS TRANS - Marcela Romero- Argentina,

RED NICARAGUENSE DE ACTIVISTAS TRANS – Silvia Martnez – Nicaragua,

SOCIETY AGAINST SEXUAL ORIENTATION DISCRIMINATION- Jermaine Grant - Guyana,

UNIBAM – Caleb Orozco – Belice,

UNITED GAYS & LESBIANS AGAINST AIDS BARBADOS - Emerson Emmanuel – Barbados.

As a Coalition Partner:  Stefano Fabeni – Heartland Alliance for Human Needs & Human Rights

 

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Date: Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:05 pm
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#1258 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Tue Jun 21, 2011 8:29 pm
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): After Harlem Pride GO TO ---> Other Countries 25th Anniversary Celebration, Sat. 6/25 7:30pm
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After Harlem Pride at Marcus Garvey Park on Saturday afternoon GO TO:

Other Countries: Black Gay Expression
25th Anniversary Celebration at Summer Solstice
The Legacy Continues


(TIME SENSITIVE ---> THIS WEEKEND)

Other Countries: Black Gay Expression - 25th Anniversary Celebration at Summer Solstice - The Legacy Continues
June 25th, 2011 @ 7:30PM (NYC)

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/other-countries-black-gay-expression.html

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Other Countries: Black Gay Expression
25th Anniversary Celebration at Summer Solstice
The Legacy Continues

Saturday, June 25th
7:30 pm
LGBT Center
208 West 13th Street, Room 410
Manhattan

Admission is Free
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#1259 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Thu Jun 16, 2011 9:56 am
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): (TIME SENSITIVE) ---> Diasporan Views: New York, Haiti, Cuba - Photography Exhibition by Ocean Morisset
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TIME SENSITIVE (THIS WEEKEND ---> SATURDAY)
Diasporan Views: New York, Haiti, Cuba - Photography Exhibition by Ocean Morisset
Sat, June 18th, 2011 (5PM - 8PM) - Sister's Uptown Bookstore
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/diasporan-views-new-york-haiti-cuba.html


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#1260 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Wed Jun 15, 2011 10:17 am
Subject: UPDATE: Nubian Knights Network (N3): THPAC; Mooz-lum; WOW! 40th (AROBAINI) International African Arts Festival; ADODI Celebrates It's 25th Silver Anniversary With 3 Events On The 4th of July Weekend
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Hey African FAM,

I forgot to mention again that THPAC's (Thelma Hill's Performing Art Center) 35th anniversary 5-day dance performances kick-off THIS SUNDAY!!! Also, Mooz-lum was just relased on DVD. A phenomenal film.


More upcoming events in the coming weeks. Plan your calendars accordingly.

Read on...

ROD



TIME SENSITIVE (STARTING THIS SUNDAY)
THPAC's 35th Season Presents Thirty5-in-5 - SOULS OF OUR FEET: PEOPLE OF COLOR DANCE FESTIVAL
Sunday, June 19th - Thursday23rd, 2011 @ 7:30PM (NYC)

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/thpacs-35th-season-presents-thirty5-in.html

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MOOZ-LUM Just Released and NOW on DVD
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/02/mooz-lum-film-by-q-premieres-this.html


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WOW! Can you believe 40 years! Since 1971???!!!

The 40th (AROBAINI) Annual International African Arts Festival / July 1st - 4th, 2011 - 10AM - 9PM Daily (Rain or Shine) - Brooklyn, NYC
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/40th-arobaini-annual-international.html
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The ADODI New York Chapter Celebrates ADODI's 25th Silver Anniversary With 3 Events On The 4th of July Weekend
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/adodi-new-york-chapter-celebrates.html


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#1261 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Tue Jun 21, 2011 7:15 am
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): HARLEM PRIDE ;Kevin Powell Supports Marriage Equality; Taylor Siluw (of The SGL Caf Blog) Transitions
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Hey African FAM,

Harlem Pride is this week. Please show your support and swing though on the various events especially the park celebration at Marcus Garvey Park.

And sadly, to bookend this week's info, we lose Black SGL blogger
Taylor Siluw of The SGL Caf. He was a leader, a BMX brutha, an author, an activist... I just have to take each day slowly to deal with his passing.

ROD




(TIME SENSITIVE ---> THIS WEEK)
2nd Annual Harlem Pride (2011) - Scheduled Events At Casa Frela Gallery, Marcus Garvas Park & Harlem Lanes
Thursday, June 23rd - Sunday, June 26th, 2011 (NYC)
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/2nd-annual-harlem-pride-2011-scheduled.html


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Kevin Powell - A Progressive Community Leader in the African Diaspora Supporting Marraige Equality
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/kevin-powell-progressive-community.html

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BRING THE THUNDER Comic Book By Dynamite Entertainment - Plus A Little Black Panther Mixed In Here
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/bring-thunder-comic-book-by-dynamite.html

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Taylor Siluw (of The SGL Caf Blog) Transitions
Sunrise: 1968 to SUNSET: June 19th, 2011
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/taylor-siluwe-of-sgl-cafe-blog.html

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#1262 From: dcmdva_sgl_lgbti@yahoogroups.com
Date: Fri Jul 1, 2011 2:37 pm
Subject: File - Drumbeat & more
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DRUMBEAT: National Black SGL/LGBT Listserv
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nationalblacksgllgbt
This listserv includes African-American, Black, Caribbean, and African
SGL/LGBTI, in addition to our allies & other progressive activists, nationwide
as well as outside of the United States.

SGL/LGBTI Persons of African Descent [USA]
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/usa_SGL_people_of_African_descent
A nation-wide group for same-gender oriented persons of color and other sexual &
gender minorities.
Same-gender-loving, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Homosexual, Transgender, Two-Spirit,
Intersex people of African descent in the United States

#1263 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Wed Jun 29, 2011 7:37 am
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): BMX-NY's I AM A MAN Forum and the 2nd Annual Harlem Pride w/Pictures
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Hey African FAM,

This week I have important news to plug regarding the I AM A MAN forum.

It is a partnership forged by Black Men's Xchange-New York (BMX-NY) in conjunction with Malcolm X Grassroots Movement (MXGM) and Reverend Al Sharpton's National Action Network (NAN).

WE ARE LOOKING TO GET A 50% BLACK HETEROSEXUAL AUDIENCE (bruthaz and sistahs, but especially bruthaz) for this event!! Please note the date, and PLEASE copy and paste the info directly from my blog and pass it on to others. Thank you!

Next, I have a bunch of pics to share from  the 2nd Annual Harlem Pride event. It was awesome and saw so many friends. AWESOME once again!

Read on...

ROD



BMX National Presents I AM A MAN: Black Manhood & Sexual Diversity In The Black Community (Forum)
Saturday, July 16th, 2011 @ 2:00PM (NYC)

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/bmx-national-presents-i-am-man-black.html

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Official Pictures From The 2nd Annual Harlem Pride
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/2nd-annual-harlem-pride-2011-scheduled.html

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#1264 From: Allen Joiner <falltacular@...>
Date: Fri Jun 24, 2011 2:26 pm
Subject: Get in on The ULTIMATE Mountain Getaway..Rooms Going Fast!
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#1265 From: Audacity <audacity_always_wins@...>
Date: Fri Jul 1, 2011 7:38 pm
Subject: Smithsonian Folk Life Festival 2011 - National Mall, Washington DC
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Smithsonian Folk Life Festival
July 1-3 and 7-11
 
Includes: Colombia; Peace Corps; Rhythm & Blues

Rhythm and Blues:
Tell It Like It Is

The 2011 Smithsonian Folklife Festival will celebrate the people and culture of Rhythm and Blues music in the United States. Rhythm and Blues —a category of music that encompasses jump blues, soul, funk and more contemporary styles—is recognized throughout the world as one of the most identifiably American forms of popular music. The Festival program will explore the social and cultural history integral to the development of Rhythm and Blues and will present not only performances, but also conversations and workshops with some of the artists, songwriters, radio personalities, and others who have worked behind the scenes to produce the music.
The Rhythm and Blues: Tell It Like It Is program will consist of two large covered stages and a smaller discussion/narrative stage, highlighting select styles associated with African American urban centers in the United States. Through performance and narrative presentations, Festival visitors will discover exciting connections between different forms of musical performance, social dance, the recording industry, and broadcast radio—all of which accompanied and contributed to shaping the musical heritage of Rhythm and Blues. The program is being produced in partnership with the National Museum of African American History and Culture.

#1266 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Wed Jul 6, 2011 6:45 am
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): Besouro (2009) Is On DVD; Int'l African Arts Festival PICS; I AM A MAN Forum
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Hey African FAM,

I had to share the news that Besouro (2009) is now on DVD. Besouro, action movie set in 1920s Bahia, the story of a legendary Capoeira fighter who uses the power of Candomble (an Afro-Brazilian religion) to fight the harsh conditions which, even post-abolition, the African population endured in Brazil.

I want to emphasis that Besouro IS NOT your typical "action movie", nor a Hollywood popcorn movie, and I believe is more layered with its African spiritual aspects. The action fight scenes were choreographed by action director Huan-Chiu Ku (Kill Bill; The Matrix; Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon). If you're down for something more a little more involving with some action then check out Besouro; see my links below for more info on my blog.

Also, I only took a few pics of the Int'l African Arts Festival. I went twice on Friday and Monday. Monday was the most festive, and I bought a few items for myself. SO HAPPY that the festival has been venerable for 40 (AROBAINI) years!! INCREDIBLE!

A REMINDER that the
I AM A MAN: Black Manhood & Sexual Diversity In The Black Community (Forum) is coming up a week and a half. We are looking for a large Black heterosexual audience to come join us for this event at Al Sharpton's National Action Network headquarters on Saturday,  July 16th, 2011 @ 2PM.

Read on...

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"Besouro"  (Beetle) (2009)< - An Afro-Brazilian Film Set in 1920s Bahia About Legendary Brazilian Capoeira Fighter Besouro Mangang
NOW ON DVD
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2009/09/besouro-beetle-afro-brazilian-film-set.html


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A Few Pictures From The 40th (AROBAINI) Int'l Africa Arts Festival
http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/40th-arobaini-annual-international.html

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BMX National Presents I AM A MAN: Black Manhood & Sexual Diversity In The Black Community (Forum)
Saturday, July 16th, 2011 @ 2:00PM (NYC)

http://www.nubianknightsnetwork.com/2011/06/bmx-national-presents-i-am-man-black.html
 


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#1267 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Wed Jul 6, 2011 2:17 am
Subject: BMX National (07|08|2011): BUILDING A SAME GENDER LOVING LIBERATION MOVEMENT: A Dialogue with Same Gender Loving Sisters
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In This Week's Gatekeepers Issue
This Friday's BMX-NY Topic:
BUILDING A SAME GENDER LOVING LIBERATION MOVEMENT: A Dialogue with Same Gender Loving Sisters
Friday Forum Recap (06|24|11): How Do We Flex Our Political Muscle?
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BMX- New York  Topic  For  This  Friday,  July  8th,  2011       
   
BUILDING A SAME GENDER LOVING
LIBERATION MOVEMENT:  
A Dialogue with Same Gender Loving Sisters
 
Facilitated by JM Green & Carmen Neely

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Carmen Neely, Executive Director of Harlem Pride and 
John-Martin Green, Co-Founder of BMX-New York Chapter  
  
What, if anything, has happened in your family or community over the last year that has led to understanding same gender loving (SGL) people or relationships?

Young People (Group)

How active have we been in our communities (e.g. local communities, Black communities, Civil Rights or Gay Liberation initiatives?)

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Doing Community Outreach and Voter Regsitration
 

How do we express our political voice and social consciousness around SGL issues?  Do we have a voice and an SGL social consciousness?


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Which SGL people tend to be politically astute, involved, focused and powerful?


What have they accomplished?  Where are they leading us?

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Is it possible that our political inactivity/invisibility is related to conflict around self-worth and emotional disorientation?

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What, if any value might there be in honoring one's cultural uniqueness?

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What do we want to change?


Do we need a movement to address our issues?  If so, are we capable of starting and sustaining such a movement?
    
Harlem Pride's Camen Neely (@ Marcus Garvey Park)
Carmen Neely, Executive Director of Harlem Pride
 
 
 
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Friday  Forum  Recap
(BMX- NY  Topic  Hi-lites  From  Friday,  June  24th,  2011) 
  
      
Facilitated  by  Anthony  Truly   
   
During Friday's dialogue we looked at the extent to which same gender loving men flex our political muscle from the following angles:  
 
 
Define political.
 
"To advocate for causes..."
 
[Participant reads dictionary definition] "'Pertaining to public policy; concerned with the administration of government: a political system: Engaged in or taking sides in politics...'"
 
 
What does it mean to be political?
 
"Having a voice and using it everywhere I go...And now, learning to use it as a gay, same gender loving, HIV+ man...It's phucking freeing...I came to this [disposition] by almost losing my life..."
 
"[Being political means] If it's not documented, it doesn't exist...It's the ability to make sure things are documented...The police harass us [with impunity]...I call Internal Affairs...I call CCRB...I hold them to account...[That's being political]..."
 
 "Being political is challenging the status quo...Seeing something is wrong or unjust and setting out to right the wrong..."
 
 
What is political capital? How is it garnered?  Do we have any?  Where?
 
"[Having] some kind of clout..."
 
"Capital...The assets, the gains and abilities we have in unity...Resources, numbers, people...BMX could be considered capital because here we are a group of men...We don't have a lot of political capital as Black men because of what we were told by our parents...That we were wrong...It's slowly growing..."
 
{Facilitator says, "That's important...You said Black men don't have a lot of political capital because of what we were told by our parents...Can you elaborate on that?..."}
 
"We were taught into shame..."
 
"That's a great point...That we are not present to our political capital because we have been taught to be ashamed of who we are...Being political presumes worthiness..."
 
"We all have political capital...It's about whether or not we choose to use it..."
 
"Once you give gay, SGL, or whatever [people] the right to marry, you're legitimizing the group...As long as you don't, you're robbing them of their political capital..."
 
"It's not gay, SGL or whatever...Especially where we're talking about political clout...capital...[What I call myself involves] self-determination...It's connected to [having a] voice, and the things that impede our capacity [to find our voice...and take political action]..."
 
"{Facilitator says, "[Same gender loving in the name of] A self-determination movement [which] is crucial...We came out of slavery only a moment ago...We are still in the process of defining ourselves..."}
 
"That's so true...My mother died in January... And as I was preparing for her home-going, it occurred to me that she was born fewer than fifty years after Emancipation...I was born fewer than a hundred years after Emancipation...The reason we went from Nigger to Colored, to Negro...And, I remember, as a kid, for a moment between Negro and Black, some among us identifying as Afro American...Malcolm founded the Organization of Afro American Unity, I believe it was...And I remember Black people arguing amongst ourselves as we opted to shift from Negro to Black...And now, we are in another transition...As homosexual Black folk stand up with Same Gender Loving...The reason we have continually shifted from one identification to the next is because we have continually opted to redefine ourselves in the face of definitions that were imposed on us...So, yes...in terms of gaining political capital, it matters what we call ourselves...Do you think it's an accident that we may be within hours of marriage equality in the State of New York?...No, gay works for the people who coined it...Something I learned growing up through all of that is that, the way you can tell if an identification works for a people is that, it impels them to act in their own interest..."
 
 
Is being pro-Black and pro-SGL radical?
 
"Radical is stepping out of the preconceived notions of normal...I always hated being considered a minority...There ain't nothing minor about me..."
 
"[Radical is] taking a clear and distinct position..."
 
"I think SGL is a way of further separating us..."
 
"The reason I like SGL is because, when I say it, people say, 'What is that?'...And it gives me the opportunity to reflect on things about me...to say some things about who I am [that gay doesn't]..."
 
{Facilitator reads definition, "'Radical...Favoring fundamental or extreme change; Specifically, favoring basic change in the social or economic structure'"...}
 
 
Does the gay liberation movement address our issues?
 
"Do the things the gay movement are fighting for address my needs?...No..."
 
"Yes and no...One time I went down to the LGBT Center...There was a [game night]...People were playing games...It was an open thing...It was all White except for one guy...and this guy [who was running it] kept making all kinds of excuses for why we couldn't play...On Logo, "Noah's Arc was the highest rated show they had, and yet, they still haven't replaced it..."
 
"They don't address our issues...Police profiling...the spread of HIV and AIDS...In some places in Africa, it's up to fifty percent..."
 
"With mainstream society, you know what they say, 'If you can't beat 'em join 'em'..."
 
{Facilitator says, "It's not about beating 'em, it's about being our best selves collectively..."}
 
""Your parents were taught not to oppose White people...Your grand parents were taught not to oppose White people...You have been brainwashed to not even choose your own name on the threat of death...We were also taught to settle for whatever they gave us...And we have only been allowed to have about 30 -years of having a voice...You cannot change 450 years of training in 30- years...That's why there has been no revolution...Why we will kill each other rather than them...We wait for them to tell us what to think...Even as we look at marriage equality, they look at it differently than we look at Civil Rights...They look at it as [a] resource right to be able to transfer property and inheritance..."
 
{Facilitator says, "White gays don't have entitlement issues based on PTSS [Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome]...Their entitlement issue is, 'I don't have enough'..."}
 
"We have already been separated, that's what slavery did...we're not separating ourselves...gay marriage or unions is only good for people who can use it..."
 
"If you can't beat 'em join 'em?...No, I'm not joining 'em..."
 
"[I recently realized] I haven't been operating with a full set of emotions...Where did that come from?...I was raised in a household where you were not allowed to express anger...My grandmother is 97...Her mother was born a slave...They were not allowed to express anger...We were raised not to be angry...But there are others of us who may be missing other emotions like love...the ability to love ourselves and each other...This idea that we have been trained to accommodate White people and that we must come together to heal ourselves is very serious...So, all our lives we are taught as Black men that we are not worthy...We are not worthy...Years ago, I was a science reporter...I chronicled Act Up for Newsweek Magazine from the beginning of the movement...I took a plane with them down to Atlanta [and the Centers for Disease Control] where they planned to [disrupt] shit and get thrown in jail...It was a Civil Rights Movement strategy...The difference is they had the money to bail each other out...There was this one Black guy, and my sense was that he was somebody's sex object...And I thought, what's going to happen to him?...When he goes for a job and has to say, 'Yes, I was arrested once, but it was part of a political movement'...Is he going to get the same kind of consideration as his White counterparts?..."
 
"The notion of unity is false...There are two kinds of racism...Systemic and identity...We have not been taught how to deal with racism...Jewish people have set the template for having voice after [having been conquered]...The concept of DL means not having a full identity...We have been [enculturated] not to take power...Power is [saying] 'No,' no matter who it pisses off..."
 
 







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Friday, July 15th, 2011
ARE YOU MARRIAGE MATERIAL?  Now That We Can, So What?
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Friday, July 22nd, 2011
"MOGUL" Reading and Book Signing with Author, Terrance Dean  (Facilitated by JM Green)   
 
 
Friday, July 29th, 2011
WHAT CAN WE LEARN FROM EACH OTHER ABOUT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A BLACK MAN: A Dialogue with Hetero Sisters
 
    
   
  
 
 
 
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New York, NY - From comedian Tracy Morgan's controversial rant to CNN's Don Lemon's 'coming out',  to the historic legalization of same-sex marriage in New York last week - homosexuality is at the forefront of water cooler conversations these days.  It is a particularly hot topic within the Black community, given the social, political and cultural ramifications inherit within this community. Where as in previous generations, in order to escape oppression, some very 'light-skinned' Blacks 'passed as White,' today many same gender loving (SGL) men pass as heterosexual, hiding in plain sight, to escape the pain of being regarded as less than "real men."
 
In response to the brewing controversy around homosexuality and the Black community, the Black Men's Xchange (BMX) National has joined forces with the National Action Network and the Malcolm X Grassroots Movement to present the community forum I AM A MAN: Black Manhood & Sexual Diversity in the Black Community on Saturday, July 16th at 2:00 PM at the National Action Network in New York.  The National Action Network is located at 106 West 145th Street (near Lenox Ave.)  Black Men's Xchange National  is the nation's oldest and largest community-based movement devoted to promoting healthy self-concept and behavior, cultural affirmation and critical consciousness among same gender loving, gay-identifying and bisexual African-descended males and allies.
 
 
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Recalling the signs carried by Memphis sanitation workers at the strike where Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated, I AM A MAN is an affirmation of the common struggle of Black men, and a call for the inclusion of the SGL men among the collective. Noting a rash of highly publicized homosexual teen suicides across the country and that the highest incidence of HIV/AIDS in the Black community is still among Black men, most of whom are homosexual and bisexual, Reverend Sharpton cites, "There is absolutely a need to have this discussion."
 
 
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Says Cleo Manago, "For generations, the Black community has been so preoccupied with survival in America, or assimilation, we have rarely stepped out of this to figure ourselves out, or rationally address our perceived differences with each other.  This forum is one of those rare opportunities on an essential issue."
   
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Black Men's Xchange-NY Co-founder, John-Martin Green insists, "This human rights struggle - for diverse Black men to be fully present, respectfully representing our range - can only be won as we muster our courage as a community to face our fears and end misunderstandings that produce unhealthy behaviors and division among us."
 
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Join BMX National and their community partners to jointly build a stronger community, where whether SGL, bisexual or heterosexual, it is safe not to "hide in plain sight" anymore. I AM A MAN: Black Manhood & Sexual Diversity in the Black Community will be a forum dedicated to insuring that all Black people can be respected and affirmed.
 
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Alvin Ailey, Jr.  (1931  -  1989) 

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Alvin Ailey 1Alvin Ailey, Jr. (January 5, 1931 - December 1, 1989) was an American choreographer and activist who founded the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater in New York. Ailey is credited with popularizing modern dance and revolutionizing African-American participation in 20th century concert dance. His company gained the nickname "Cultural Ambassador to the World" because of its extensive international touring. Ailey's choreographic masterpiece Revelations is believed to be the best-known and most often seen modern dance performance.
 
Ailey was born to his 17-year-old mother, Lula Elizabeth Ailey, in Rogers, Texas. His father abandoned the family when Alvin was only 6 months old. Like many African-Americans living in Texas during the Great Depression, Ailey and his mother moved very often and she had a hard time finding work. Ailey grew up during a time of racial segregation and rumors of violence and lynchings against African-Americans. When Ailey was five, his 22-year-old mother was raped by a group of white men, leaving him afraid of whites. Early experiences in the Southern Baptist church and jook joints instilled in him a fierce sense of black pride that would later figure prominently in Ailey's signature works.
 
In the fall of 1942, Ailey's mother, like many African Americans, migrated to Los Angeles, California where she had heard there was lucrative work supporting the war effort. Ailey joined his mother later by train, having stayed behind in Texas to finish out the school year. Ailey's first junior high school in California was located in a primarily white school district. As one of the only black students, Ailey felt out of place because of his fear of whites, so the Aileys moved to a predominantly black school district. He matriculated at George Washington Carver Junior High School, and later attended the Thomas Jefferson High School. He sang spirituals in the glee club, wrote poetry, and demonstrated a talent for languages. He regularly attended shows at Lincoln Theater and the Orpheum Theater. Ailey did not become serious about dance until in 1949 his school friend Carmen De Lavallade introduced him to the Hollywood studio of Lester Horton. Horton would prove to be Ailey's major influence, becoming a mentor and giving him both a technique and a foundation with which to grow artistically.
 
 
Alvin Ailey (Young)
 
 
Horton's school taught a wide range of dance styles and techniques, including classical ballet, jazz, and Native American dance. Horton's school was also the first multi-racial dance school in the United States.Ailey was, at first, ambivalent about becoming a professional dancer. He had studied Romance languages at various universities in California, but was restless, academically, and took courses as well in the writings of James Baldwin, Langston Hughes, and Carson McCullers. He moved to San Francisco to continue his studies in 1951. There, he met Marguerite Johnson, who later changed her name to Maya Angelou. They occasionally performed a nightclub act called "Al and Rita." Ailey earned a living waiting tables and dancing at the New Orleans Champagne Supper Club. Eventually, he returned to study dance with Horton in southern California.
 
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Ailey formed his own group, Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater, in 1958. The group presented its inaugural concert on March 30, 1958. Notable early work included Blues Suite, a piece deriving from blues songs. Ailey's choreography was a dynamic and vibrant mix growing out of his previous training in ballet, modern dance, jazz, and African dance techniques. Ailey insisted upon a complete theatrical experience, including costumes, lighting, and make-up. A work of intense emotional appeal expressing the pain and anger of African Americans, Blues Suite was an instant success and defined Ailey's style.
 
For his signature work, Revelations, Ailey drew upon his "blood memories" of Texas, the blues, spirituals, and gospel. These forces resulted in the creation of his most popular and critically acclaimed work. Ailey originally intended the dance to be the second part of a larger, evening-length survey of African-American music which he began with Blues Suite.
 
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Though Ailey created 79 works for his dancers, he maintained that his company was not merely a showcase for his own work. Today, the company continues Ailey's vision by performing important works from the past and commissioning new additions to the repertoire. In all, more than 200 works by over 70 choreographers have been performed by the company.
 
Ailey was proud that his company was multi-racial. While he wanted to give opportunities to Black dancers, who were frequently excluded from performances by racist attitudes at the time, he also wanted to rise above issues of negritude. His company always employed artists based solely on artistic talent and integrity regardless of their race.
 
Ailey continued to create work for his own company and also choreographed for other companies.
 
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In 1962 the U.S. State Department sponsored the Alvin Ailey Dance Company's first overseas tour. Ailey was suspicious of his government benefactors' motives. He suspected they were propagandistic, seeking to advertise a false tolerance by showcasing a modern Negro dance group.
 
In 1970, Ailey was honored by a commission to create The River for American Ballet Theatre. Ailey viewed The River, which he based on the music of composer Duke Ellington, as a chance to work with some of the finest ballet dancers in the world, particularly with the great dramatic ballerina Sallie Wilson. ABT, however, insisted that the leading male role be danced by the only black man, despite misgivings by Ailey and others about the dancer's talent.
 
Alvin Ailey and Judith Jamison 
 Alvin Ailey and Judith Jamison 
 
 
Cry (1971), was one of Ailey's greatest successes. He dedicated it to his mother and black women everywhere. It became a signature piece for Judith Jamison.
 
The Alvin Ailey Dance Theater was constructed by Tishman Realty and Construction Alvin Ailey Theatre (NYC)Corporation of New York, Manhattan's largest builder.

Ailey made use of any combination of dance techniques that best suited the theatrical moment.[5] Valuing eclecticism, he created more a dance style than a technique. He said that what he wanted from a dancer was a long, unbroken leg line and deftly articulated legs and feet ("a ballet bottom") combined with a dramatically expressive upper torso ("a modern top"). "What I like is the line and technical range that classical ballet gives to the body. But I still want to project to the audience the expressiveness that only modern dance offers, especially for the inner kinds of things."
 
Alvin Ailey Dancers 
 
Ailey's dancers came to his company with training from a variety of other schools, from ballet to modern and jazz and later hip-hop. He was unique in that he did not train his dancers in a specific technique before they performed his choreography. He approached his dancers more in the manner of a jazz conductor, requiring them to infuse his choreography with a personal style that best suited their individual talents. This openness to input from dancers heralded a paradigm shift that brought concert dance into harmony with other forms of African-American expression, including big band jazz.
 
In 1992 Alvin Ailey was inducted into the C.V. Whitney Hall of Fame at the National Museum of Dance in Saratoga Springs, NY
 
Ailey kept his life as a dancer a secret from his mother for the first two years.

Ailey was homosexual and is one of the most prominent SGL Black men in American history. According to Black homosexual activist Keith Boykin, this is rarely acknowledged in the Black community due to the stigma surrounding homosexuality. Ailey died in 1989 at the age of 58 from a complication of AIDS.
 
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The SGL symbol, the Bawabisi, is inspired by Nigerian Nsibidi script and West African Adrinkra symbols. The two facing semi-circles represent unity and love. The figure has been split symmetrically in half to suggest parts of a whole that mirror each other. Dots are often used in Adinkra symbols to represent commitment and pluralism. The split and dots, with the addition of color, suggest the concept of gender. The circle encompassing the figure reinforces the idea of connectedness despite duality, suggesting the idea of two-spirited.





About  The  BMX- NY  Chapter...
 
  



THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE - NEW YORK (BMX-NY) was founded in Harlem in 2002 and is a gathering for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual Black men to powerfully and respectfully address issues that impact their lives, and to connect with one another in a positive, affirming, nurturing and transformational environment. Ages 18 and up.

 



About  The  BMX- Baltimore  Chapter...
 
  
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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE - BALTIMORE was founded in 2008 to provoke critical thinking; to teach Black men how to unlearn internalized oppression, and to give Black men the tools to deal with these issues. Ages 18 and up.
  
 


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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE (BMX) was founded in 1989 by activist, writer and behavioral health expert Cleo Manago, as an instrument of healing and empowerment for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual African descended men. The mission of the Black Men's Xchange (BMX) is to affirm, heal, educate, unify and promote well-being and critical thinking among Black people - 18 and up - diverse in sexuality, class, culture and philosophy.  Black Men's Xchange (BMX) conducts activities that promote healthy self-concept, sexual health, constructive decision making, and cultural affirmation among same-gender-loving (SGL), bisexual and heterosexual Black populations. BMX affirms and educates Black men (and the community at-large) while providing tools for self-determination, community responsibility, self-actualization and the prevention of health threats (e.g. HIV, isolation, substance and other addictions, and mental instability). BMX creates an environment that advances Black culture and involves identifying and unlearning ingrained anti-homosexual and anti-black male and female conditioning.
 
BMX is built on a philosophy that embraces same gender loving experience as intrinsic to everyday Black life.  Integral to BMX's approach is the understanding that, in order to decrease internal and external anti-homosexual thinking, and demystify differences around diverse ways of living and loving Black people must engage in supportive dialogue with each other and the community.
 
At BMX we believe that self-determination is crucial in achieving success toward healing and empowerment.  We understand that our cultural and experiential uniqueness requires a uniquely focused and precise approach.  Affirming strategies born out of our own experience is powerful; hence, the adoption of the terms, Black, African American and Same Gender Loving (SGL).
 
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#1268 From: "Arena" <arena_stage@...>
Date: Thu Jul 7, 2011 3:48 pm
Subject: Performance Update from Arena Stage
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Performances of Rodgers and Hammerstein's Oklahoma! begin tomorrow at Arena
Stage and shows are already sold out through July 14 with limited availability
through the end of July. Get your tickets early before we sell out. Call us
today (202-488-3300) or visit www.arenastage.org.

#1269 From: Audacity <audacity_always_wins@...>
Date: Mon Jul 11, 2011 8:47 pm
Subject: Bias Crimes Underreported in DC [Washingtonpost.com]
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D.C. advocates, police agree more reporting needed on bias-related incidents

 

By , Published: July 5

Quincy Jones already knew he was gay, so when a group of street preachers hurled epithets at him one night last month outside the Columbia Heights Metro, he says, he shrugged it off.
Then, Jones says, it got uglier: “I’ll kill you where you stand,” one of the preachers shouted into
a microphone. Shaken, Jones called 911 from a nearby sandwich shop.
But the officer who responded was unimpressed when asked to take an incident report, according to Jones, 32. “He was like, ‘For what? For calling you a name?’ ”
Long-standing D.C. police policy requires officers to file reports on bias-related incidents, which can include name-calling and the posting of offensive fliers. But the number of reports they have taken has come under scrutiny. Through the first six months of this year, for example, only six incident reports have been filed.
Police and leaders in the city’s gay, lesbian and transgender community agree that the number of reports should be significantly higher, but they offer different explanations for the statistics. Activists say residents already hesitant to report incidents are less likely to do so if police are believed to be unsympathetic; police cite low awareness of the policy within their ranks.
On Wednesday, police and community leaders will testify about city law enforcement’s response to sexual-orientation-related bias issues at a hearing held by the D.C. Council’s Committee on the Judiciary. It will be the third such hearing since 2008.
“We’ll focus on whether handling of hate crimes has gotten better and remind the police that we’re paying attention to this,” said council member Phil Mendelson (D-At Large), the committee’s chairman.
Police referred questions on the issue to Sgt. Carlos Mejia, who has supervised the department’s Gay and Lesbian Liaison Unit since 2009. Founded in 2000, the unit has trimmed staff in recent years but has also been hailed as a visible example of policing tailored to community need.
With enough data on hate crimes and bias-related incidents, Mejia said, the police could identify crime and incident patterns in certain neighborhoods. But the data have yet to yield usable trends. “Nothing is trending at this point,” Mejia said. “But we do know where they’re taking place.”
Bias-related reports can also help prosecutors as they pursue cases and recommend sentences, said Bill Miller, spokesman for the U.S. attorney for the District. “The U.S. attorney’s office wants as much information as possible so that defendants are held fully accountable for their crimes,” Miller said.
The police department has faced heightened scrutiny of its handling of hate and bias issues since 2008, when residents complained during council hearings that police did not adequately address three violent attacks on gay men.
Hate crimes against gay, lesbian and transgender individuals made up 60 percent of all hate crimes reported in the District between 2005 and 2010, compared with 18 percent nationwide, according to D.C. police and FBI statistics.
“It’s been a continuing, long-standing problem,” Mendelson said. “I believe at the command level there is a sincerity about complying with hate-crime reporting requirements, but when it gets down to the actual implementation on the street, there’s always a problem with underreporting hate crimes or any bias-related incidents.”
Mejia said he believes officers’ reluctance to file bias-related incident reports is “rare.”
But gay, lesbian and transgender community leaders say word of incidents such as the one Jones reported travels fast.
“When you hear about people who have had bad experiences with the police, you become reluctant to participate and go to the police,” said Todd Metrokin, co-founder of a group called Gays and Lesbians Opposing Violence. “And people are already hesitant to report these types of incidents.”
During a 2008 hearing, Metrokin testified that it took two weeks for police to begin investigating after he was severely beaten by a group of young men who screamed homophobic epithets.
And he recently reported an incident in which a man shouted homophobic slurs at him in public. The officer who responded to his call refused to take a report until Metrokin insisted he call his superior, Metrokin said.
“There seems to be a disconnect between what we’ve been told and how they’re handling it,” said Metrokin.
Mejia acknowledged that not every officer might be sensitive to issues affecting the gay, lesbian and transgender communities. But he said that advanced training sessions are available to department members.
“I’m sure we’ve had incidents where an officer was not aware of [the reporting policy], so that’s why we’ve been emphasizing this in training,” Mejia said. “These are areas where where not every [officer in a unit] will have recognition of these nuanced issues.”
Training sessions on issues affecting minority groups such as the gay, lesbian and transgender communities, offered four times a year, are not mandatory, Mejia said. About 3 percent of the force has completed the week-long training and received the designation of Special Liaison Unit-affiliate officers, he said. A smaller number have completed advanced training specific to gay, lesbian and transgender issues.
“The goal is to get people to volunteer to sign up for it,” Mejia said. “While the numbers at this point are low because of logistics, I think we’re very lucky to have a department that’s trying to get its officers the best training to be in tune with what the community needs.”
 

#1270 From: Audacity <audacity_always_wins@...>
Date: Thu Jul 21, 2011 11:25 pm
Subject: THE SKINNY - new film by Patrik-Ian Polk (Noah's Arc, Punks)
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THE SKINNY [2011]
 

Patrik-Ian Polk's THE SKINNY- Official Teaser Trailer

THE SKINNY, the new feature film from writer/director Patrik-Ian Polk, tells the story of five Brown University classmates reuniting in the Big Apple for a weekend of sin and fun.


#1271 From: "Arena" <arena_stage@...>
Date: Mon Jul 18, 2011 7:53 pm
Subject: Rave Review for Arena Stage's Oklahoma!
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Check out this glowing review of Arena Stage's revival of Rodgers &
Hammerstein's Oklahoma! in The Washington Post.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/oklahoma-makes-a-joyful-return-to-\
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#1272 From: Audacity <audacity_always_wins@...>
Date: Thu Jul 28, 2011 3:23 pm
Subject: Bry'Nt - free music download links
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#1273 From: "a.m." <zawydi@...>
Date: Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:48 am
Subject: "Trip the light fandango" w/ Flamenco and Classical Guitarist MARK SALEK
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#1274 From: BIG ROD <big_rod01@...>
Date: Wed Jul 13, 2011 5:37 am
Subject: Nubian Knights Network (N3): One Last Push For Besouro (2009), An AWESOME Afro-Brazilian Film
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Hey African FAM,

I had to do one last plug to promote the Afro-Brazilian film Besouro (2009) which has recently made it's way to DVD.

I made a bunch of updates on N3 blog by adding Besouro's official website (not in English through, but you can still make out what's happening and still navigate through it) with wallpaper and stuff you can download from there. I also added a bunch of pictures so you can see more of the film, and I pointed out the African Orishas (Exu, Ogun, Oshun, etc.) that play a role int he film.

Short story...

After waiting over 2 YEARS for someone to exhibition the film in New York City, I finally got to see a film screening
exhibition of a 35mm print of the film at the Museum of the Moving Image in Astoria, Queens, NYC 3 months ago on Sunday, April 17th, 2011. The theater was medium sized and was packed. It was so packed that they had to call the museum crew in to physically bring in addition seats and place them at the back of the theater to accommodate people Including me! LOL!)... READ MORE...


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#1275 From: Audacity <audacity_always_wins@...>
Date: Thu Jul 28, 2011 3:38 pm
Subject: Bry'Nt - free music download links (corrected)
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