Hi Folks! Tomorrow, I turn 42. On this, the eve of my birthday, I decided to enlist my dad in my healing journey. So, I went to my parents' house for dinner...
Good Guys, I hope you'll visit the blog this week . . . and feel free to leave a message in the comment section. I was thinking about the fact that healing...
Hi folks, I had a little victory the other day. There is a large city park about two blocks from my house. I took my dog for a walk that afternoon and I got...
Hello Fellow Strugglers, I thought I would take some time to share some things about my journey. There are a number of lies that people in our situation...
Good Guys, First of all, I just want to thank all of you who go to the trouble to visit the blog. I pray that you find encouragement there. This week I took...
Hi folks, I was playing with the Bing search engine the other night and came across this website, "Truth Wins Out" I'm sure that some of you might have heard...
Good Guys, When I think of hell, I think of endless cycles . . . unrealized hope punched to breathless despair, a prize always extended, but guarded by the...
Good Guys, I don't think Jesus would be very patient with the "don't ask, don't tell" stance of today's church regarding the sexual brokenness of its members....
Hi, I thought I would say a few words around the subject of labeling. First off, I think labeling is a bit complicated because I believe there is no same sex...
My fellow strugglers, Six weeks ago, after several years of sobriety, I was up to my neck in my homosexual sin, covered in miry muck, acting out on a regular...
Good Guys, One of the hardest things anyone with a significant struggle deals with, is doubt. Self-doubt, sure. But, also the doubt others have in his or her...
Hi, I recently started professional counseling and my counselor recommends that I find a mentor. Does anyone have any suggestions? I have already looked into...
Granted, his testimony closes without an ending. But then, none of our testimonies are complete yet. Some have broken free from the gay lifestyle and are...
Good Guys, Wouldn't it be nice if emotions and feelings came with labels like green beans and cookies? We could just scan the can or peruse the package and ...
Good Guys, Looking a little at the what-ifs of life this week on the blog. I've come to see that anyone who struggles with sexual brokenness -- and if you...
Hi all, I recently read this article and found it very interesting. I'm posting a link below. http://www.theonion.com/content/news/gay_teen_worried_he_might_be...
I found this article by Mike Ensley at my local Bonds of Iron SSA men's group website. It is a great read for all continuing SSA strugglers. I think he really...
Good Guys, This is a story about a kid named Spike. He was, for me, a great affliction, though I have asked for forgiveness for thinking of him as such. It...
Good Guys, I hope everyone is doing well and doing you best to escape this deep-freeze that seems to be sweeping the nation. I know we're supposed to be near...
Good Guys, I hope your new year is off to a peaceful start and that you are resolved to trust God. I wrote about that in the blog this week and I hope you'll...
Thank you guys for accepting me into your community...It has been a great source of accomplishment. I have been using a friends account whos name is phil,....
Good Guys, I hope you are all having a joyous Christmas. No matter what has befallen us or how much further we have to go in or struggle, what we know is that...
I live in a town out in the middle of nowhere, but for a rural community this town is pretty sizable. I am currently supporting my wife and myself by working...
Good Guys, Do you ever wake up in the middle of the night and do a life review? In that rear-view mirror of reclining restlessness all the wrong turns of the...
My gay son just sent all of us an email saying he is too broke to buy presents this year and hoped everyone would understand. He told us that we did not need...
Good Guys, The Christmas season can cause some of us to reflect a bit on the losses in our lives as well as the great gains we've made as strugglers through ...
JUST FOUND A GREAT SPIRITUAL VIDEO ON YOUTUBE. GO TO YOUTUBE SEARCH BAR AND TYPE IN THESE 3 WORDS : the miraculous mosaic . hope you be blessed by it. ps; we...
Good Guys, Whether you know it or not, members of your church are ministering to Christians who struggle with homosexuality. Like the struggle itself, their...
Good Guys, I hope this Thanksgiving finds you with much to thank God for. In my blog today, I write about one of my darkest days, yet remain thankful for it. ...
