Good Guys, I've been asked a number of times what it is like now for the people in my life to know about my struggles with unwanted same-sex attraction. To...
There's no way to earnestly address this issue without taking heat from somewhere. Nevertheless, I felt it was time to boldly go where angels fear to tread, to...
Good Guys, I was thinking about God's ever-presence today when I updated the blog. Here's a little snippet. I hope you'll visit the blog and leave your...
Good Guys, As we begin a new week, I thought I'd focus on "hope" in this week's Signs of a Struggle. Here's an excerpt . . . and I "hope" you'll visit the...
Hello men! What a journey! I've had such an amazing time as of late...talking with my ssa brothers about recovery. I'm building actual friendships, even though...
Good Guys, I just updated the blog at http://thom-signsofastruggle.blogspot.com/ and would love your comments if you have time to read. Here's a brief graph...
Good Guys, I believe there are times when God works in extreme ways to get our attention. He removes us from the routine of life; reminds us that everything we...
Good Guys, I wonder if sometimes we don't put a little too much effort into protecting ourselves from the sinners around us instead of protecting them from...
Good Guys, When we fall, we cry out, but the responses are so varied. Some hear and cross to the other side of the road; others stop and scold, some weep, and...
Good Guys, It is in Christ alone that any of us who struggle with this or any other self-dominating sin can find the strength, the hope, the rest, the grace,...
Our friend nfttm, wants me to pass this on to our groups. I thought they were very good thoughts: www.eaglesneedapush.com And: Choosing Not To Be A Target ...
Good Guys, Placing blame in this particular issue is like putting a big hard rock in the middle of the road to forgiveness. It gives you something difficult to...
Am hurting right now. Just found out last nite that the guy I knew...he was one of my ex-gay heroes when I first left the gay lifestyle. Saw his testimony...
Hey Friends, I don't know if you guys have seen the short video about how Stonegate Church reaches out to same-sex strugglers. It's very powerful. I've put a...
A Christian who has a born-again experience at age 9 grows up loving the Lord with all his heart. He has a Christian family, has family devotions and a...
Dear Friends, I know many "former gays." As a struggler hesitantly moving myself closer and closer to the the "former" column, the newest report from the...
Hey Friends, I mentioned earlier that when I had more specific information on the Exodus Regional Conference in Oklahoma City, I'd pass it on. So, here it is....
Dear Friends, I've just updated my blog and I thought you might be interested. Here's a snippet: Anyone who has struggled with a sexual sin -- or any...
Folks, just wanted to let you know I have posted a review of Exodus International president Alan Chambers' new book, "Leaving Homosexuality: A Practical Guide...
Hey Friends, I just wanted to invite any of you who are anywhere near Oklahoma City . . . or want to make a visit in October . . . to attend the 14th Annual...
Dear Friends, We all have a hope and a future. How many times have we who struggled with sexual problems felt we had little hope and no future? Yet God makes...
Dear Friends, I hope you are doing well with your personal struggle. Here's a snippet from this week's blog. Feel free to visit . . . and leave a comment...
Hey Friends, In my blog today I address the unlikelihood of making positive changes in people's lives when the approach is cloaked in comdemnation, instead of...
My sister in law sent me this today and thought you all might like it. Subject: THE GREATEST DANGER The greatest danger we all face is not being able to see...
There has been a large change at my church. My church hired a woman to lead what the church called adult spiritual formation. She was in charge of placing...
I don't do this as a rule, but I am taking a moment to mention my latest blog post today at http://theformers.wordpress.com. I tend to hone in on issues where...
Hey Friends, Are the memories we carry with us one of the greatest deterrents to our success in our struggles? "Despite how damaging the memories others have...
I talked to my son on IM this morning. Even though I have concerns about him dating and health etc, he said something that really made me happy: He said:...
Hey Guys, I hope you're having a good week so far. I've posted a new entry on the blog if you are interested: a little insight into "slippery slopes." Here's...
