Husband and Wife Snatcher.

We have heard many stories of women who have lost their husbands to other women
or men whose wives ran for other men. Some lost theirs to death, others to some
unforeseen circumstance and some, to other women or men. The latter group
behooves me more. Therefore, a husband or wife snatcher is the woman or man who
takes the spouse of another woman or man. What other people call Husband or Wife
Snatcher. It would seem it is not a new idea.

We have seen this same phenomenon with Harpalyce: the hunting princess, follower
of Artemis in Greek Mythology. She hunted anything that moves until her people
became wary of her, caught her and beat her to death. Her name even tells it all
when the first two syllables of her name mean snatcher and the last part means
wolf. Women and men who snatch the spouses of others are wolves. They are a wolf
to the society, a wolf to spouses and a wolf to themselves. Unfortunately,
despite some of the poetic justice they go through, the practice is still very
rampant. Some have been shot dead point blank, others given a drink they never
woke up and some embraced with clinical lunacy. Homes have been shattered,
friendships kaput, jobs lost, relationships wrecked and lives defunct because of
snatchers.

There are many reasons why married people lose their spouses. The Bible says “a
virtuous woman doeth good to her husband all the days of her life (Prov 31:12).
There are two ways in which a woman could do good to her husband. The first is
food and the second is sex. The Bible makes us understand that people work all
the days of their life simply because they want to have food on the table (Eccl
2:24; 3:22 ). If there is no food on the table, your spouse will never be
satisfied to stay. No human can downplay the importance of sex in marriage.
Therefore, when a spouse becomes a frump is a tacit invitation to snatchers. If
they treat sex as a reward to good behavior is a repellent to “foreign shops”.
When sex becomes a weapon to subjection or control then a wolf was just given
dinner. The spouse starts to flirt with a coworker, neighbor, best friend,
church member, who angelically treats them with gratuitous sex and meals of a
first class chef.

When other women or “best friends” tell you your spouse is sleeping around, is
not out of love but ingeniously to knock you out of your home so that either you
will become like them or give room to them. Most women who tell wives of men
that their husbands are sleeping around, themselves are single and looking. What
do you think they are looking out there? They are gazing at wandering and stray
spouses! Then they pick them up as a wolf does with a stray sheep. Before you
know it, your best friend is in and you are out.

Don’t blame the society or your spouse for a snatched spouse. If a shepherd
takes good care of his cattle, no wolf will snatch one. Husbands are like sheep:
they easily stray off the herd because they always see the grass greener where
danger looms but your good treatment will retain them. Remember, men are
influenced more by sight unlike women who are influenced by touch. A man just
needs to see a good skirt to go berserk while the woman needs some sweet talk
and tender touch to appeal to her emotions.

My friends, the single market is saturated and especially good men are scare to
a fault. The list of single women is too long. If a girl rejects your
application, drop it next door. It is like seeking for employment. You keep
applying until a company employs you. If you have the goods, you should at least
find a buyer. But cut your coat according to your size. Just leave the one that
is married. Do unto others what you want done unto you.

Prince and PA Hamilton Ayuk





A people can never advance by cuddling their own vices while projecting those of
others". (Dr Emmanuel Konde).



























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