Karen,
sorry i don't have your e-mail, i hope you find this. anyone else
who stumbles upon this is welcome to check it out as well.
anyway here is the site that has the t-shirts I was talking about,
works like a charm, makes the guys job a lot easier, gives them
something to break the ice with. haven't been able to find them in
stores but this website sells them.
http://www.themoms.biz
God Bless,
molly :)