Thank you my friend for your compliments. :)
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, Robert McLeod
> good advice
> benignheart2 <benignheart2@...> wrote:
> This is what the advice of the greatest Teacher; (Heavenly Teacher)
> According to His written word any relationship outside married is
> committing adultery. Seeking affections outside the marriage not
> idea bec; it brings pain to other party. One can feel not valued
> than the other therefore is not good situations. You can make up
> your mind to whom you will be with the rest of your life. If you
> prefer the one that you got pregnanted with, as you believe she is
> good partner in a long run or give your legal spouse freedom to
> someone else. Its up for her to forgive you or not. Just be honest
> with her. Tell the truth what you feel about her and what happened
> your life in a close curtain. Tell her you are involved emotionally
> with someone. Ask her if she will forgive you and keep the marriage
> going or not. If she said; "I will forgive you then repent, and
> try to support your baby in outside married. Make your legal wife
> understand. Let see also if your girl friend will understand you
> eventually she will dump you when she realize she is been used only
> and not legal wife.
> If ur legal wife can't stand it and decide to let you go, then face
> the reality and hopefuly at the closing of your life you will not
> regret what you have done. Bec; guilt and terrible feelings to have.
> True love develops with many years it will not born overnight.
> Enfatuations don't last forever when conflicts occurs. Bec; its
> on feelings and emotions no commitment. True love remains even the
> feelings and emotions are not great. But, there are exceptions,
> enfatuations sometimes can develop to seriously love by hook and by
> crook even there are sever conflict in the later days the love
> Let both women decide if its okay to live in this life with two
> in one man. There are woman can live like this. and Lucky are those
> man who have accepting womens in life but I doubt if the guy will
> have peace in mind. hehehehhe But high self esteem ladies it won't
> work this triangle love. They will kill you of what you have done.
> Bec; bed is something secred for couples not to be shared. Only
> friendship, sisterly and brotherly love and care can be shared but
> not intimacy between the couple. But sometimes it happened to open
> the zippers to strangers but human are allowed to be mixup for the
> first and second time but I don't know about the third times may be
> someone will face death. heheheheh
> Well, goodluck to you! Just to make it sure the baby is really your
> blood may be someone got to her first before you. Is she has esteem
> and dignity and she knew you are married she will not do this
> for second time; Unless you tempt her and take advantage on her
> days to say "no". hehehhe May be she realize she was mistaken for
> first time but if she comes to her sensese what she had done to
> woman or to someones married vows , then she will shoot you out.
> Unless she is desperate to get a man bec; she can't cope being
> in life. But, one way or another she will realize when she reach
> certain age then you will have trouble if her self esteem develop.
> Feelings and emotions its just like certain plant that if we don't
> water it daily or constant care it will die itself. If certain
> that is so temptation to us , then its time to move on not much
> contack each other so that it will not be bothersome to break more
> principles of respecting others property. Evryones lower hips is
> belong to someone whom they promise before the altar that they will
> love and cherish that woman or man. if they have a hard time doing
> it they should not go for that commitment till someone make up the
> But; things happened so, face the reality. I believe in every
> there is a solutions.
> The best solutions I can think of your situations make up your mind
> to whom you will be with. You can't let this situation go on for no
> one can serve two masters and still be free in guilt. Humans
> goal in this life is to reach the pennicle of happiness . So, lets
> all need to clear the path way to happiness cut off the bad vines
> that bothers the way to successful relationship. Its hard and not
> safe to be in the boat one foot and the other foot on the other
> you are end up riding between the two boat when both boat go in
> other directions you are split in half and no good situation for
> more hurt if you wait more longer without resolving the situation
> Goodluck to you brother. I feel your challenge and I can
> Sorry if I am a little bit streaight forward here I am just sharing
> to you what I have learn and experience in life. I am quiet older
> and my goal is to share wisdom I may gain through out the years and
> some testimony I have heard from around the world.
> Wish you peace and joy forever in your life. Take your burden to
> Lord and leave it there. There is no problem so big that God cannot
> solve it. He cares for all of us. He understand all the temptations
> we are going through He knows we want to make it right but
> we don't know how ... that's why He reaches us through sending us
> experience friends in our lives.
> Take care and thankyou for sharing your situations! Your situations
> touch so many others and all of our experience others can learn
> hope they will not make same mistakes.
> Yours truly,
> I will keep you in prayers. You are welcome to share your update to
> all of us of your situations.
> Looking forward to hear from you again. My apology if I am sound
> strong but truth swometimes is hurt. my intention is not to judge
> one but shared ideas what I've experienced and shared others what
> they have been through and learn lessons from them.
> Our goal is to help find together the best possible solutions in
> every challenge we face in life. Every bad or good situations is
> to a new possibility of improvement in life walk.
> Mathew 8: 38 if I am not mistaken, "Everything happened for good to
> those who love the Lord according to His purpose."
> --- In firstname.lastname@example.org, giriraj bhole
> <girirajbhole@> wrote:
> > my girlfreind is pregnant.
> > what to do nopw
> > i had no physical relations with my wife yet
> > as i am married to my girlfriend though not legally
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